Test whether a kind person for children. Summary of the lesson on moral education "let's be kind and humane"

TEST "AM I KIND?"

I know of no other sign of superiority other than kindness.

Beethoven

All people are very different ... Some are ready to give the last to their friend and just an acquaintance; you can’t interrogate others even for snow in winter. What category of people do you yourself belong to? Are you always considerate and kind to others? This test will help answer these questions. On the answer sheet, write “yes” or “no” next to the number of each question.

Questions:

1. You have money. Could you spend them all on gifts for your friends?

2. A friend tells you about his troubles. Will you let him know that you are not interested in this?

3. If your partner is weak at any game, will you sometimes give in to please him?

4. How often do you talk pleasing to people to cheer them up?

5. Do you like bad jokes?

6. How long do you remember the trouble your friends gave you?

7. Can you patiently listen even to something that does not interest you at all?

8. If you are sure that you are right, do you refuse to listen to your opponent's arguments?

9. Are you willing to comply with the requests of others?

10. Can you play pranks on someone to make others laugh?

11. Do you like to write letters to your friends?

12. Do you often call your friends to support them?

13. Are you a supporter of the death penalty?

14. Could you help a drunk person?

15. Do you like small children?

16. Do you think that noisy dogs should be beaten?

17. Can you be the first to approach a friend after a fight?

ANSWER FORM

Surname, First name _________ Date_______

Question number

Answer

Glasses

Question number

Answer

Glasses

total amount points: ____________

Results processing

Using this key, compare your results and calculate the number of points received.

KEY TO THE TEST

Question

Possible answer

Question

Possible answer

"Yes"

"No"

"Yes"

"No"

Interpretation of results and psychotechnical exercises

From 0 to 6 points.Communication with you is not entirely pleasant for people, since you rarely trust them. Apparently, based on your life experience, you came to the conclusion that you should not be especially kind, as others will not appreciate this and may repay you with evil. But this is a serious misconception. Be more friendly and kind and you will have more friends.

Exercise "Day without remarks"

Learn to restrain your dissatisfaction with others, your negative emotions. You certainly want to express what you think of them, but it is unpleasant for others to endure the manifestation of your neglect. Learn not to swear.

Give yourself a word - for the whole day to forgive everything to everyone, accept the words of others with understanding, do not criticize anyone, do not make comments, no matter how much you would like to), do not condemn the actions of classmates, members of your family and do not swear with anyone. If it worked out and you could live the whole day just like that, then after a couple of days increase this period to two days, etc. Bring the duration of the exercise to one week, and then analyze what has changed in you and in your relationships with people.

7 to 12 points.Your kindness is a matter of chance. You are not kind to all people. This is not so bad, but be more careful in your relations with others, more tolerant and kind even with those you do not know at all.

Exercise "Pleasant conversation"

If the question that makes you unpleasant emotions, not too principled, strive to make communication with a person simply pleasant. Whether your interlocutor is right or wrong (now it does not matter in principle), try to make this person feel good with you, calmly and he has a desire to meet and talk with you again.

Then, be sure to talk to him again and find out what he thinks about your last conversation. Did he really enjoy talking to you?

13 to 18 points.You know how to communicate with almost all people. You are truly benevolent and kind. You do not alienate those who have different views, but never try to please everyone.

Exercise "Kind Smile"

Learn to greet others with a kind and friendly smile, especially when they turn to you, also smiling. If it doesn’t work right away, try to smile with an inner smile, it should always be, especially since by nature you are a really kind and sympathetic person. I wish you success!

Synopsis of a lesson on moral education on the topic: "Let's be kind and humane"

Target:

    To give the concept of the moral qualities of a person, about kindness.

    To develop adequate evaluation activities aimed at analyzing one's own behavior and the actions of people around.

    To educate students in mutual respect, polite treatment, the ability to feel, understand themselves and another person.

    Work on development positive traits character.

    With the help of games, proverbs, and tasks to develop creative potential child. Learn to express your thoughts, work together.

Equipment: Presentation, cards with proverbs, questionnaire tables, a flower of kindness ”for coloring.

Event progress:

The teacher reads the parable:

A man was walking along the shore and suddenly saw a boy who was picking up something from the sand and throwing it into the sea. The man came closer and saw that the boy was picking up starfish from the sand. They surrounded him from all sides. It seemed that there were millions of starfish on the sand, the shore was literally dotted with them for many kilometers.

Why are you throwing those starfish into the water? the man asked, coming closer.

There was a storm and the stars washed ashore. If they remain on the shore until tomorrow morning, when the tide begins, they will die, - the boy answered, without stopping his occupation.

But that's just stupid! the man shouted. - Look around! There are millions of starfish here, the coast is just dotted with them. Your attempts won't change anything!

The boy picked up the next starfish, thought for a moment, threw it into the sea and said:

No, my attempts will change a lot... For this star.

Educator: Can this boy be called a highly moral person?

What is morality?

AT explanatory dictionary Ozhegova: Morality is the personality traits that determine human behavior.

What qualities of a person do you know?

Kindness, diligence, courage, truthfulness, responsibility, responsiveness, caring, fidelity, friendliness, courtesy, gratitude, thrift, disinterestedness, hospitality, curiosity, wisdom, modesty, compassion, sensitivity, generosity, etc.

We have listed some very good qualities personalities that determine human behavior. There are qualities of character opposite to these qualities. Name what?

Anger, laziness, hostility, rudeness, irresponsibility, stupidity, greed, etc.

Well done! Listed the good and bad qualities of a person's character. Think, look at yourself from the outside: what qualities prevail in your character.

I think I have many good qualities.

Why do you think so? Give examples.

Teacher: I wish everyone to have good qualities of character, develop these qualities in yourself from an early age, work on yourself, work on yourself, your life depends on it, what it will be: successful or unsuccessful. Tell me what you want to be in life: successful or unsuccessful?

Successful, successful, happy.

To be happy, successful in life, you must develop good qualities of character.

It is not given to an immoral person to do great things”

Having solved the crossword puzzle, we will read the main personality trait of a moral person.

1. Can it be real and imaginary? (friendship)

2. Willingness to help, respond to other people's needs? (responsiveness)

3. Is this feeling necessary for every person? (love)

4. Between friends should be mutual …….? (confidence)

5.Clash of opposing interests? (conflict)

6. Kind, responsive attitude towards a person? (heat)

7. Caring attitude towards people? (Attention)

Let's listen to a song to the verses of N. Tulupova "Kindness"

Being kind is not easy at all.

Kindness does not depend on growth,

Kindness does not depend on color,

Kindness is not a gingerbread, not a candy.

You just need to be kind

And in trouble do not forget each other.

And the earth will spin faster

If we are kinder to you.

It's not easy to be kind.

Kindness does not depend on growth,

Kindness makes people happy

And in return does not require a reward.

Kindness never gets old

Kindness will warm you from the cold.

If kindness shines like the sun

Adults and children rejoice.

kind person- what kind of person is this?

A kind person is a person who wants others to feel good, to make others happy. He is always ready to disinterestedly help another, knows how to sympathize, sympathize. A person who does good to others, who knows how to empathize with them, feels happy.

Scene: "Happiness"

What is that in your hand?

Happiness...

Why so small?

It is only mine. But what a radiant and beautiful ...

Yes, amazing!

Do you want a piece?

Maybe...

Give a palm, I will share with you.

Oh, it's so warm!

Like?

Thank you very much! You know, I feel much better when happiness is in my hand...

It always happens that way.

What if I share with someone?

Then you'll have more of your own!

Why?

Don't know. Only then will it become even warmer.

Can you burn your hands on it?

Pain burns hands... Happiness cannot burn...

SHARE!!! Give everyone a heart

Why a heart? Because our kindness comes from our heart. Teacher: Thank you.

Restore the proverbs, explain one of them, name your own proverb about goodness.

    Good deeds, ... (more expensive than money)

    It's not that hard to change the world... (start with yourself)

    Good is not dashing - ... (wanders quietly)

    Good deed ... (lives for two centuries)

    A kind word is better ... (soft pie)

    To a kind person and ... (someone else's disease to the heart)

name literary works, where main character shows the best moral qualities.

Listen to the story "Shards of Kindness" by an unknown author.

And think about which of the proverbs fits this story.

The family spent the day off at the beach. Children swam in the sea and built castles in the sand. Suddenly, a little old woman appeared in the distance. Her gray hair was blowing in the wind, her clothes were dirty and tattered. She mumbled something to herself as she picked up some items from the sand and put them into her bag. The parents called the children and told them to stay away from the old woman. As she passed by, every now and then, bending down to pick up something, she smiled at the family, but no one returned her greeting. Many weeks later, they learned that the little old lady had devoted her whole life to picking up pieces of glass from the beach with which children could cut their legs.

Changing the world is not so difficult, start with yourself.

How do you feel after reading the story?

Why do you think the old woman devoted her whole life to this occupation?

What do you think, if people knew what the old woman was really doing, what would they do? Have there been times in your life when you didn't like a person at first because he was different from others, and later you learned something good about this person?

What would happen to the world if there was no kindness in it?

List everyone whose kindness helps you grow.

The kindness of parents, grandparents, educators and teachers, friends, etc.

And now I suggest you check yourself: are you a kind person.

Test: "Are you a kind person"

Each question must be answered with one answer: “yes” or “no”.

3. Your partner is bad at chess or another game. Will you give in to him so that he does not lose interest in the game?

4. Do you like saying nice things to people to cheer them up?

8. Are you willing to use your abilities for the benefit of other people?

9. Do you quit the game when it is already obvious that you are a pro player?

Let's summarize:

Scoring.

One point for each affirmative answer to questions: 1, 3, 4, 7.8, 11

And for the negative answer to questions: 2, 5, 6, 9, 10, 12.

Lesson summary

What did we talk about today?

About morality. About kindness.

What have you learned for yourself? Is it worth it to be kind in life?

Teacher: Well done children, I hope that you understand with what qualities of character it is better to live in this world. I want to finish Classroom hour in the words of V.A. Sukhomlinsky “You need to have great fortitude in order to “live with your heart”, to wish good to others. Pay good for good! Be kind and merciful.

Now I invite you to write on your heart those moral qualities that you possess.

Performance of the song "The Way of Good".

Ask life strict

Which way to go

Where in the world white

Leave in the morning.

Follow the sun

Though the path is unknown

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Follow the sun

Though the path is unknown

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Forget your worries

Falls and rises

Don't whimper when fate itself

She doesn't act like a sister.

But if it's bad with a friend,

Don't rely on a miracle

Hurry to him, always lead

Dear good.

But if it's bad with a friend,

Don't rely on a miracle

Hurry to him, always lead

Dear good.

Oh, how many will be different

Doubts and temptations

Don't forget that this is life

Not child's play.

Drive away temptations

Learn the unspoken law

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Drive away temptations

Learn the unspoken law

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Ask life strict

Which way to go

Where in the world white

Leave in the morning.

Drive away temptations

Learn the unspoken law

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Drive away temptations

Learn the unspoken law

Go my friend, always go

Dear good.

Test "Am I kind"

1. You have money. Could you spend everything you have on gifts for friends or family?

2. A friend shares his problems or troubles with you in a conversation. If the topic is not interesting to you, will you let the interlocutor understand this?

3. Your partner is bad at chess or another game. Will you give in to him so that he does not lose interest in the game?

4. Do you like to say nice things to people to cheer them up?

5. Do you often use bad jokes?

6. Do you have vindictiveness, vindictiveness?

7. Will you keep up a conversation with a friend if this topic are you not interested at all?

8..Do you willingly use your abilities for the benefit of other people?

9. Do you quit the game when it's obvious that you've lost?

10. If you are sure that you are right, will you listen to the other person's arguments?

11. Will you do work at the request of your parents, if it is not part of your duties (do something for someone from the household, for example)?

12. Will you imitate someone to cheer up your friends?

This test is a means of self-knowledge, self-analysis by students of their personality traits, encouraging them to self-development and self-improvement. They give the student information that helps him think about himself, comprehend moral problems together with others. The most important condition is to ensure absolute sincerity, which is achieved by anonymity, the absence of mutual influence students to each other. The question should be answered "yes" or "no".

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Test "Am I Kind"

You are offered questions and an answer sheet, in which you must indicate “yes” or “no” against each question number

1. You have money. Could you spend everything you have on gifts for friends or family?

2. A friend shares his problems or troubles with you in a conversation. If the topic is not interesting to you, will you let the interlocutor understand this?

3. Your partner is bad at chess or another game. Will you give in to him so that he does not lose interest in the game?

4. Do you like to say nice things to people to cheer them up?

5. Do you often use bad jokes?

6. Do you have vindictiveness, vindictiveness?

7. Will you keep up a conversation with a friend if this topic does not interest you at all?

8. Are you willing to use your abilities for the benefit of other people?

9. Do you quit the game when it's obvious that you've lost?

10. If you are sure that you are right, will you listen to the other person's arguments?

11. Will you do work at the request of your parents, if it is not part of your duties (do something for someone from the household, for example)?

12. Will you imitate someone to cheer up your friends?

Result handling:

One point for each affirmative answer to questions 1, 3, 4, 7, 11 and for every negative answer to questions 2, 5,6,8,9, 10,12.

Results:

More than 8 points. You are kind, like others, know how to communicate with people. Do you have a lot of friends. One word of caution: never let anyone take advantage of your kindness.

4 to 8 points . Your kindness is a matter of chance: you are not kind to everyone. For someone you go for everything, but try to be equal with everyone so that there are no offenses against you.

Less than 4 points. You have a hard job ahead of you.


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TEST "AM I KIND?"

I know of no other sign of superiority other than kindness.

Beethoven

All people are very different ... Someready to give the last to their friend and just an acquaintance; you can’t interrogate others even for snow in winter. What category of people do you yourself belong to? Are you always considerate and kind to others? This test will help answer these questions. On the answer sheet, write “yes” or “no” next to the number of each question.

Questions:

1. You have money. Could you spend them all on gifts for your friends?

2. A friend tells you about his troubles. Will you let him know that you are not interested in this?

3. If your partner is weak at any game, will you sometimes give in to please him?

4. Do you often say nice things to people to cheer them up?

5. Do you like bad jokes?

6. How long do you remember the trouble your friends gave you?

7. Can you patiently listen even to something that does not interest you at all?

8. If you are sure that you are right, do you refuse to listen to your opponent's arguments?

9. Are you willing to comply with the requests of others?

10. Can you play pranks on someone to make others laugh?

11. Do you like to write letters to your friends?

12. Do you often call your friends to support them?

13. Are you a supporter of the death penalty?

14. Could you help a drunk person?

15. Do you lovelittle children?

16. Do you think that noisy dogs should be beaten?

17. Can you be the first to approach a friend after a fight?

18. Are you willing to let friends read your books?

ANSWER FORM

Surname, First name _________ Date_______

Question number

Answer

Glasses

Question number

Answer

Glasses

Total Points: ____________

Results processing

Using this key, compare your results and calculate the number of points received.

KEY TO THE TEST

Question

Possible answer

Question

Possible answer

"Yes"

"No"

"Yes"

"No"

Interpretation of results and psychotechnical exercises

From 0 to 6 points. Communication with you is not entirely pleasant for people, since you rarely trust them. Apparently, based on your life experience, you came to the conclusion that you should not be especially kind, as others will not appreciate this and may repay you with evil. But this is a serious misconception. Be more friendly and kind and you will have more friends.

Exercise "Day without remarks"

Learn to restrain your dissatisfaction with others, your negative emotions. You certainly want to express what you think of them, but it is unpleasant for others to endure the manifestation of your neglect. Learn not to swear.

Give yourself a word - for the whole day to forgive everything to everyone, accept the words of others with understanding, do not criticize anyone, do not make comments, no matter how much you would like to), do not condemn the actions of classmates, members of your family and do not swear with anyone. If it worked out and you could live the whole day just like that, then after a couple of days increase this period to two days, etc. Bring the duration of the exercise to one week, and then analyze what has changed in you and in your relationships with people.

7 to 12 points. Your kindness is a matter of chance. You are not kind to all people. This is not so bad, but be more careful in your relations with others, more tolerant and kind even with those you do not know at all.

Exercise "Pleasant conversation"

If the question that causes you unpleasant emotions is not too fundamental, strive to make communication with a person simply pleasant. Whether your interlocutor is right or wrong (now it does not matter in principle), try to make this person feel good with you, calmly and he has a desire to meet and talk with you again.

Then, be sure to talk to him again and find out what he thinks about your last conversation. Did he really enjoy talking to you?

13 to 18 points. You know how to communicate with almost all people. You are truly benevolent and kind. You do not alienate those who have different views, but never try to please everyone.

Exercise "Kind Smile"

Learn to greet others with a kind and friendly smile, especially when they turn to you, also smiling. If it doesn’t work right away, try to smile with an inner smile, it should always be, especially since by nature you are a really kind and sympathetic person. I wish you success!

Are you kind and considerate to others? Are you able to give the last shirt to someone who needs it more? Our quiz will help you answer these questions.

1. You have money. Could you spend everything you have on gifts for friends?

2. A friend tells you about his troubles. Will you let him know that you are not interested in this, even if it is?

3. If your partner is bad at chess or another game, will you sometimes give in to him to please him?

4. Do you often say nice things to people just to cheer them up?

5. Do you like bad jokes?

6. Are you vindictive?

7. Can you listen patiently even to something that doesn't interest you at all?

8. Do you know how to apply your abilities in practice?

9. Do you quit the game when you start losing?

10. If you are sure that you are right, do you refuse to listen to the arguments of your opponent?

11. Are you willing to comply with requests?

12. Would you tease someone to make others laugh?

Now give yourself 1 point for answering “yes” to questions 1, 3, 4, 7, 11 and for answering “no” to questions 2, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 12.

More than 8 points. You are kind, like others, know how to communicate with people. You probably have many friends. One word of caution: never try to have a good relationship with everyone - you can't please everyone, and it won't do you any good either.

4 to 8 points. Well, your kindness is a matter of chance. You are not kind to everyone. For some, you can do anything, but communication with you is more than unpleasant for those who do not like you. It's not so bad. But, probably, we should try to be equal with everyone so that people do not get offended.

Less than 4 points. Communication with you, I must admit, is sometimes just flour even for the people closest to you. Be kinder and you will have more friends. After all, friendship requires a good relationship ...