A small introduction from KCity:

I have been reading Azerbaijani forums for 6 years. There was day.az, now there is disput.az - the largest Russian-language forum in Azerbaijan. There are a lot of Russophobes, there are also loyal ones. Naturally, Russians are also trolling there, who, in other matters, are very quickly banned, who enter into discussions and point to the place of Azerbaijanis.

The main Russophobes are Azerbaijanis living in Russia. Similar to our liberals, they repeat the same mantras and do not differ in intelligence and ingenuity, however, like all primates.

Mostly Azerbaijanis living in Russia hate her. Primate thinking. Somehow I will find the most juicy comments about Russia and Russians, where they call for the murder of Russians. A Russian user collected them and on one of the topics where they praised themselves (how tolerant they are), posted the accumulated quotes.

I want to show you an article by Hamid Hamidov. He studied journalism at Moscow State University and lived in Moscow for several years.
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Hamid Hamidov

So...

1. Locals (let's just call them Muscovites) hate the Chechens the most. Hated but feared. Hated, but not despised. That is, they pay tribute to Chechen courage, masculinity, and so on.

2. They are a little less afraid of the Dagestanis. And respect accordingly less.

3. Azerbaijanis are not afraid, they are not respected. Partially despised. Alas, in comparison with those who influence the image of Azerbaijanis negatively, those who can improve the image of an Azerbaijani are negligible.

4. Armenians are not afraid, for the most part they respect them.

5. Georgians are not afraid, they respect them, and, which is amazing for me, they love them very much, no matter what.

6. Uzbeks, Tajiks, Kirghiz - they do not respect, they are not afraid. They don't despise. Rather, they scurry.

It is amazing that the locals do not perceive Dagestanis and Chechens at all as their compatriots, Russians like themselves...

Naturally, what has been said about Azerbaijanis does not apply to all of our compatriots living in the Russian Federation. On myself, for example, I almost never experienced a negative attitude. True, I suspect (and in some cases, these suspicions were justified) that the majority of those Muscovites who saw me once in their lives, rarely talked, were sure that I was not an Azerbaijani. Despite the fact that, by our standards, I am a pronounced Azerbaijani.

Several times, talking about my nationality, I saw people's eyes widen. Once, even my friend and I had to convince the interlocutor that we were not kidding.

Stereotypes. Alas. A stereotype has long and firmly settled in the minds of the locals - an Azerbaijani is either a market trader, and almost always "threw" or bombed, who is ready to take you cheaper than others, without knowing the way, well, or a big millionaire who, almost always ( in general, such an attitude towards all millionaires, regardless of nationality) made his fortune dishonestly in the troubled 90s.

And most importantly, according to the majority of locals, an Azerbaijani cannot speak Russian clearly. I even somehow had to argue with one lady who said that Armenians speak Russian more purely than other Caucasian peoples.

Delusion. Complete. Both Armenians and Georgians always, even after many years, have a pronounced accent that betrays Armenians and Georgians in them. Our man, who speaks pure Russian, does it without an accent, or almost without an accent. In any case, it is cleaner and for the most part more literate than representatives of neighboring countries.

How fair this attitude is towards us, how long they think of us like that and why, is no longer so important. Much more important is something else. How to fix this situation? And who should take action first? Who should set the tone, lead by example, teach a lesson to everyone else?

In the Russian Federation today we have hundreds and hundreds of leading Azerbaijani scientists, Azerbaijani officials, Azerbaijani doctors, Azerbaijani businessmen, Azerbaijani teachers, Azerbaijani sportsmen, Azerbaijani cultural figures. Fewer journalists. But what? Nargiz Asadova, Irada Zeynalova, Azer Mursaliev, Rustam Arifjanov, etc.

If desired, with the help of a specially written program, and with competent work, we can not only break the stereotype about Azerbaijanis in the Russian Federation, but also radically change the attitude of Russians towards Azerbaijanis, Azerbaijan, and therefore, take a different look at our problems, including Karabakh .

So who should be the first to start working in this direction? I think that the diaspora, the Azerbaijanis who live in the Russian Federation and every day face a negative attitude towards themselves and their nation, should be interested in this more than others.

But our diaspora, regardless of the country of residence, is almost everywhere - the structure is rotten. It's useless to rely on her. I repeat, with the exception of a couple of countries and a couple of diaspora structures, all the rest are not worth a penny. By the way, in this regard, I absolutely do not understand what is so useful, REALLY useful in the State Committee for Work with Azerbaijanis Living Abroad? But we are not talking about this structure now. I hope we'll talk about it some other time.

In the meantime, back to Russia. We have already mentioned the diaspora, there is no demand from it.

The embassy remains. But then you understand: it is not known which structure is less useful.

What are the achievements of our embassy in this direction? What are the achievements of our embassy for last years? Did it unite Azerbaijanis? Have you tried? What work does the embassy do to change the image of Azerbaijanis in the Russian Federation, except for regular meetings in a narrow circle with the same invited guests?

In general, gentlemen, the answers, alas, so far are disappointing. And when you understand that it is in the Russian Federation that we have the largest diaspora, and that it is in the Russian Federation that we first of all need to have a firm and, preferably, a unified position on many topical issues, it becomes completely sad.

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Azerbaijani? What market do you trade in?
Alas...

quote: Our man, who speaks pure Russian, does it without an accent, or almost without an accent. In any case, it is cleaner and for the most part more literate than representatives of neighboring countries.

How uh - no accent?

Because most of them are

Yes her yes. But the OMON loves our people, where they catch them and love them.

When I said in the Russian Federation that an Azerbaijani was also not believed by anyone. True, I am not that black, even in Baku they often think that I am a Lezghin, but still.

In my opinion, it is high time to give up on who and how treats us. their problems. Let others care about how we treat them.

She lived in Moscow for a long time and did not see any negative attitude towards herself at all. She lived at a time of aggravation of relations between Russia and Georgia. Girlfriend - Georgian, yes, she was constantly in trouble. every patrol post made sure to stop her. but never me ... I also agree that a negative attitude is formed because of our trading citizens. Honestly, when I went to the market, I tried not to approach ours at all. Because as soon as they found out that I was also an Azerbaijani, they immediately weighed me down.
and another case. I lived near the center. One evening, returning home, I heard the sounds of a familiar Azerbaijani melody. For a long time I could not find the source of the sound, turning into a neighboring courtyard, I saw a white Mercedes, with tinted windows from which the music was screaming (yes, it was screaming). To be honest, I felt ashamed. It was already almost 9. And it's just not correct to behave like this.
and in general, being in a foreign country, you must behave according to the rules of the country, and not according to those you are used to. All this is purely IMHO of course.

As long as the power of the semi-empire treats us like this, the people will treat us badly. Georgians were respected after the conflict, when it turned out that they were small but proud, like the Chechens, and Armenians with such state support would be strange if they were not loved.

Yes, wash them on the drum who is what nation - for them everything looks like the same person of Caucasian nationality ...)

they treat pressure as a lever ... if you need to bargain for something, they put pressure on migrants (markets, passport regime, etc.).

Adoniram

Azerbaijanis are different.
I have friends both in Moscow and St. Petersburg - very respectable guys whom Russians respect a lot .. But I must say that the guys deserve this respect. They came to Russia in the mid-90s and gradually rose. Now they are engaged in a sickly business, constantly creating new jobs and helping people a lot .. There is only one “but” - they try to communicate with Azerbaijanis as little as possible. Especially with those who are from the new ones ... Because it was precisely because of these new ones that respect for Azerbaijanis fell below the plinth .. I myself served in the army in Moscow in the late 80s and I argue that in those days ours were respected much more. ..

Neither me nor my husband and children have ever been mistaken for Azerbaijanis. They took me either for Jews or for me as an Armenian. Armenians came up and asked, as always, are you Armenians? Russians for the most part, even older people, as if they had not heard about the Azerbaijanis and Baku. If you speak Russian fluently and are normally dressed, no one takes them for Azerbaijanis. Unfortunately.

I don’t speak a pen, like Mr. Gamidov, but I would write essentially the same thing ... They don’t like ours and we are not able to change anything, because we ourselves in our city are outraged by the behavior of those whose representatives represent our nation in Russia. And what about them, those who are faced with bad manners and primitivism of strangers on their territory, and I understand them. Well, what can you do, until our powers that be are seriously engaged in the education of their people, it will be even worse ....

And they also treated me and treat me like their own, but not right away ... Muscovites, too, after all, are red. Those with whom I talked and communicate are the most intelligent people, we speak the same language, we quote the same poets ... Well, there are other Muscovites ... it’s harder with them, they are angry that they have come in large numbers, angry with the economic situation ... yes many of them...

But in general, we must agree that they do not like us. Armenians are treated better, and then in recent years. Georgians are treated badly. Consider ungrateful)) He argued more than once.
But the attitude towards Azerbaijanis did not fall from the sky. Almost any bazaar is filled with absolutely illiterate, ill-mannered representatives of our nation who cannot speak Russian. And here the favorite phrase of many of ours does not squander: "Why should I know Russian, I'm Azerbaijani, I need to know my own language." And they are quite aggressive.

About the Chechens and the Dags. They are really hated. And there is a reason. They behave disgustingly. Yes, they are brave courageous people. But as soon as they appear anywhere, tension immediately builds up. They behave too brazenly, very brazenly, defiantly, very aggressively. And I understand very well the position of Muscovites towards them. If, let's say, our compatriots work there, badly, well, legally or illegally, but they work. That North Caucasians in the bulk are engaged in crime.

impulse to Fernando Altamirano

)))))
Let's say the Russians don't really separate the Chechens, Ingush, Dagestanis and Kabardians, etc., for them it's the Caucasus.)) Most likely they don't understand them, so they are a little afraid and bypass it, making equality between fear-respect is not right, it's just they see what is happening in the North Caucasus, they see people’s obedience and try to bypass it.))
Georgians are closer to them, despite recent disagreements, firstly they like to drink and sing songs, though not to such an extent, and secondly, there is still a generation that calls all Caucasians, without exception, Georgians and considers the Caucasus a generous and hospitable people.))
They don’t see much difference between Armenians and us, sometimes they even confuse who is a Muslim, who is a Christian, if you don’t explain.)) The difference between us, in the special behavior of the Armenians themselves, we don’t interfere with “love”, we don’t impose ourselves, they are do it all the time.)
As for us, these are again the stereotypes that have developed over the years, there are more of us than all other Caucasians, and most do not like anywhere.)) There will be a dominance of Poles or Finns in Russia, they will hate them, as long as there are more of us, there will be negative, only a few will remain , no one will pay attention to us, spread to others.))
The attitude towards Central Asians is consumerist, but disdains everyone who is poorly dressed and lower in status, do you think that in Soviet times they did not disdain janitors and helpers?)))
Nationalism has always been and will always be, to a greater or lesser extent, they didn’t like Jews before, now they don’t like Caucasians, the Caucasian question will end, they will start not to love someone else.))) Usually they hate the crowd, they respect nose to nose, or not, as a person.))
P.S. The entire Caucasus behaves defiantly, this is a response to nationalism.)) It’s like you see an enemy and involuntarily lift your head, speak louder and behave more aggressively, etc. will fall into place.)) And if only men from Tula trade in the markets, they will begin to dislike the Tula people, and after fifty years of commercials, call them hucksters and God knows who.))

I have been to Russia many times, and I have not experienced a negative attitude at all. It all depends on the person himself, on his culture of communication and upbringing. Sometimes, of course, our compatriots behave “like a pig” and are even ashamed of Azerbaijan. .Azerbaijani sells fruit and there are crumpled oranges in a box next to him, which he is already preparing to throw away, a granny comes up and asks her son, I can take it, in response NO NO IS IMPOSSIBLE and when I was already leaving the market I saw how he threw these oranges with a box right under his gazelle. did you feel sorry for giving them away?

impulse to Ruslan Sabitov

Don’t talk nonsense, our grandmothers love and even adore.))) Only ours give them what they sell.)) Grandmother walk along the rows with the words: “Son, I don’t have money”, so for an apple and an orange, a whole grid they take it out.)) So you don’t need to talk about crumpled and rotten goods, fear God.)))

nits .. if such skins or cops kill him, he will not be sorry at all ..

I will express my point of view. The fact is that no matter how it was, our people are still people living under the banner of Alver. Few people spend time on self-improvement, on raising their own culture and education. We only want MONEY! and faster. Armenians, whatever one may say, are SMARTER in this regard. where necessary and lick and grease and come out on central television. By the way, many people did not believe me either that I was from Azerbaijan when I talked on Russian forums. The majority of people come to Russia from villages, however, in the Russian villages themselves, the situation is no better. a high level of illiteracy, stupidity, primitive instincts, alcoholism. it is enough to watch every evening Let Malakhov speak.

Habicht to HR agency

In Our villages, things are better .. our people are working, and they are thumping. They go to Russia to work .. the work is dirty, but work is all the same. Sitting on the neck of parents and a wife in Russia is incomparably more common, and it is these assholes who jump on our hard-working merchants.

Our problem is lack of self-respect. "Alverchi" - it sounds proud! Only idiots think it's an insult.

To have 2-3 points in the markets, to live in barracks during the season and to support a family at home, to build a house, to conduct all communications in the village for hard-earned money - this is our way! This is great! We live for our families, for our homeland, and what the drunkards think of us is not interesting to us.

Nuuuuuu, seeing the number of ours in the Russian Federation, I would say that ........... well. They even love it.

In Russia, as well as among those who have unsubscribed on this topic, there are adequate, cultural people who respect themselves and thereby force people to respect themselves, and they are not adequate, cattle, boors and who do not know how to behave, do not respect themselves and at the same time disgust people !! !
And no matter what nation they are

Everywhere, and not only in Russia, civilized locals treat civilized foreigners normally. And the opinion of the cattle never interested me.

For them, we are all hachi. (Khach is a cross in Armenian. Azerbaijanis call Armenians khachiks)

I respect the traders in the markets, dressed in rags, more than the dealers in jewelry or junk in expensive boutiques, but at the same time dressed to the nines. Why? I explain!

To trade perishable goods from the southern latitudes, you need to be masters of logistics. This is skill and know-how! I am sure that none of you, those who yap at our Alverchi and disparage their profession, are not able to organize this process. I am still silent about the fact that many of them grow in their homeland those crops that are sold in Moscow. You only know how to yelp, faggots blah.

People do not get hung up on Russia, do not care how they treat us. They are treated the same as Russians are treated throughout the rest of the world.

In the distant 70s, he had the misfortune to live in Moscow, he was young but had terrible memories, very often he heard “black ......” addressed to him, he often had to conflict because of this, although at that time no one had come anywhere, etc. D., that's not the reason. I think that hatred of foreigners is laid in their families, I still can’t find another explanation for such an attitude towards myself by my peers. Do not bother yourself with ways to solve this problem, it simply does not exist in nature. For myself, I decided this very simply, I despise all of them, without exception, they are not even worth my hatred. I have not been to Russia since then and I try not to fly even in transit. I am very surprised by the classification, it seems that everything has changed a lot since those times, then we were black for them ... .. or pizdogla ...... Well, you know better there.

Tenderness of feelings

Russia that authority?? They made the navel a country from Russia, but for a start, let them learn to treat themselves kindly, then to Caucasians ..............
In order for our merchants not to dishonor our country, let our head give them normal work and higher salaries ....... Not from a good life they are there ........

Platynum Egoiste

Russians are definitely afraid of Chechens and Dagestanis like fire, since they are the only ones who adequately rebuff Russian nationalists.

This piz is a typical representative of an upstart emigrant who lives there on dashboards, flowers and alver. Not a single normal educated Azerbaijani will allow himself such a lexicon and such an appeal to his opponent. I served in Moscow and visited there a lot on business, and I can say for sure that the attention of Muscovites is primarily attracted to those who behave ugly. They yell, swear, shit, hurt girls, I don’t keep the queue and are rude like cattle. And, unfortunately, there are more of us.
They dishonor the people and create an idiotic stereotype of a choban and cattle!
I often come across them in markets, flea markets and other shopping centers.
Nobody wants to study, to know the language, to learn a decent profession, to be neat and polite. Therefore, when Muscovites communicate with Russian-speaking Azerbaijanis living in Moscow, they are surprised that there are literate people. Azerbaijanis do not want to integrate into society. As he turns the steering wheel of a taxi, he will turn or sell tomatoes all his life. And children by inheritance will sell. And to strike with a heel in the chest on the forums that they are respected in the bazaar ...

ISESCU and UNESCU

How ours are treated in Russia, in Turkey or, say, in England - this is also, of course, important, but I was always more concerned about the question of why ours themselves do not respect each other. Can we convince someone that we can and should be respected until we start doing this ourselves in relation to ourselves.

And the question “to respect ourselves” is not only and not so much respect at the everyday level, like, giving way to a compatriot in a public place or not interrupting his speech. This is a big problem in building the most just and humane society.

This is democracy (real, and not pseudo-democracy, which now reigns in our country) in public and political life, this is honesty and decency in personal relationships, this is chanting and, moreover, following the principles of humanism and justice in family or gender relations, this is expediency in a market economy, and much more.

Wanting others to respect yourself is also a kind of insight level and, perhaps, a sign of the awakening of national self-consciousness, but I see the desire and need for respect of my compatriots for each other more important and valuable. The latter can initiate the former, but not the turnover.

Azerbaijanis, respect yourself, do not comment on this topic!!!

I personally am not interested in what the Uruses, Bushmen, Zulu, Dagestanis, Chechens, Cherokee Indians and others think about us .. I may be interested in what the Turk thinks of me, because he is a brother, he is a friend .. on the rest

Comrade Hamidov, I understand this is your subjective opinion, but I myself lived in Moscow for several years and I know very well how they treat anyone there. You forgot to mention Moldovans))
Firstly, in some cases, Azerbaijanis spoil their opinion about themselves. But while living there, I always cursed and defended, seeing injustice.
For example, imagine you are a Muscovite, you have neighbors from the Caucasus. Who, at 21.00, get into the car near the block and turn on mugham at full capacity until 00.00. Would you like it?
On the other hand, I witnessed how, in line, the grannies undeservedly chided the woman who bought herself chocolates. “After all, only they can afford this,” the old women said.
In fact, just as you don’t really like Russians and give them certain labels, they also hang labels on you and you may also not like it. This is not bad for you or the Russians.
And one more detail is important. There are a few indigenous people in Moscow, people from all over the vast country come there to feed their families.
Do not pay attention and do not take it to heart.
A few more words about the Georgians. They are loved for their sweet language. You rarely meet a Georgian who, like a damned one, hates Russians.

During my 22 years in the Russian Federation, I can only say that many Russians, or “Russians” (Tatars, Chuvashs, Ingushs, etc., etc.) do not really distinguish Azerbaijanis from Georgians, Armenians, and other Caucasian nations. For them, everything is the same - the CAUCASUS! Some acquaintances, former classmates, classmates ask how you live there? Probably all in black long clothes you walk around, those who do not understand the meaning of the word say - Mujahideen, veil, Taliban))) have heard a lot on the news. Some even asked where Birobidzhan is)))) Saying that I live in Baku, they asked how beautiful Georgian women are there? Therefore, I came to one conclusion, for the Russian people it does not matter what nation it is all one - the CAUCASUS.

How do they treat Azerbaijanis in Russia? Everyone gets the treatment they deserve. In 2011, he took my mother for an operation in Moscow at the Institute of Neurosurgery named after N.N. Burdenko. He made sure that the director of the institute himself, 73-year-old N. Konovalov, operated on her, without any bribe or tapsha. He rarely conducts operations in Moscow, mostly on the road. All the staff respectfully treated us, our requests, from nurses to chief physicians. No one was afraid of me, no one despised me, and I even felt more respect for myself than for the Russians. Although there were more Armenian doctors than Azerbaijanis. Later it turned out that the deputy director of the institute was a 70-year-old Azerbaijani. I am sure that this respect was not only for me, but for the whole people as a whole. One of the nurses approached my mother and said, “I love Azerbaijanis very much, not because my husband is from Khachmaz, but simply.” office. I'm not talking about how the beautiful half of Russia indifferently breathes in our direction ..

bullshit everything
I myself lived for a long time in Russia
if you treat Russians well (someone else's garden of meseles)
they will repay you well
and there are enough idiots in every nation
and we have
and the Russians

There are no Muscovites in Moscow for a long time.

I also lived in Moscow, first on Kuntsevk, then not far from Shabolovka. They do not like Caucasians and do not respect them. Chichens just know their own worth. A Chichen will never give up his. They are a proud people. What I won’t say about the Dagestanis. Dagestanis, like us, love to show off. And the Chichens are very respectful of our women. In the mass, the Nokhchi are very close to me in spirit. And about Tajiks and Uzbeks, they are cowards by nature. But in every apartment in Moscow that we rented, I started by cleaning the apartment of pets with the letter T. They have plenty of them. In the mass, Muscovites do not like to kill the apartment. And I can say about their own, they can’t behave.

In general, brothers rabbits, isn’t it a single hell of a difference how ours are treated in the Russian Federation? This issue should be at the very last place in the list of our national interests. Our business is to conquer the vast and ownerless Russian expanses and assimilate the local half-drunk population. Something like this

Much depends on the person himself. Although in Russia, especially now, there are a lot of inadequate people. Ready to rush into a fight just from the word "Azerbaijani"
Anyway, to hell with them.
One American comrade posted his photo against the backdrop of the monument to Heydar Aliyev, and asked the opinion of his fellow countrymen. Everyone liked it, everyone is delighted. Not a single negative comment, all positive

That's what I understand, that's really cool people

I have already written on one topic and I will repeat it again.
In Russia, no one is loved (even Russians), but very few are respected.

But in principle, the topikstarter is generally right on points, although in terms of appearance or hearing) few Russians will determine who is an Azerbaijani, Armenian, Georgian or Chechen in front of him.

And about literacy and lack of accent, sorry, nonsense!
Any person in a non-native language will somehow speak with an accent.
Yes, that there is a non-native language, even if the language is native, let's take Russians from different regions, then everyone there speaks Russian with a different pronunciation and you can immediately see who is from Moscow, who is from St. Petersburg, who is from Kostroma. So are Russians (or Russian-speaking Azerbaijanis) from Baku, they speak differently than those who were born and raised in Moscow.

Firstly, our women are very fond of. Well, not the markets. Although they are also not deprived of attention. Secondly, envy. They have an idea about us that we are rich people. After all, they judge by TV or by our stories. Which describe in such a way that we have SILENT RIVERS AND KISSEL SHORE. And we sit ourselves ELLERIMIZ BALDA AYAGLARYMYZ SMETANDA DYR

By Russia, everyone means Moscow and St. Petersburg. But in other cities, for example, in the north, people are kind, responsive and they don’t care who you are by nationality and what color of skin. The only thing that takes place there is their tragedy of drunkenness. I don’t like Moscow, probably because I lived there for a long time. But I love northern peoples. I don't like nationalists at all. And where the economy in the tail always rises nat. question. To distract and entertain the youth. They are told that the enemies are Caucasians and Asians .. Well, in general, like Mr. Hitler

slayer_ll to gylya

Sheer stupidity. Name at least one state media in the Russian Federation that inspires that the enemies are Asians and Caucasians.
On the contrary, all conflicts with the local population, including criminal ones, are classified as domestic crimes. Although it’s a no brainer that these crimes have an interethnic connotation. from the perspective of a domestic conflict. A typical position of an ostrich. But you can’t fool the people.

gylya to slayer_ll

and skinheads that organized themselves? And what does the last word mean, I did not understand.

slayer_ll to gylya

I heard a lot about skinheads, but I didn’t see them live. Although I’m lying. Once my son called me and said that he and his friends were detained and taken to the police department, I come to the police department and find out that they are sewing article 282 part 2. I start to sort it out and I find out that the reason for the detention was that one comrade from their company shot a cigarette from a black man near the hostel of foreigners. The private security company called 02, the PMG arrived and detained them. he deserved it. Here are such pseudo-skinheads.
Hamadryas are a subspecies of baboons.

Barbarosa (about a video about prostitutes in Russia)

I say that their mentality is so loving and it’s not at all about us, as many like to repeat to themselves like a mantra.

Until the end of the 50s, Azerbaijan was the main region Soviet Union for the processing of hydrocarbon raw materials and retained this status until the development of the oil-rich territories of Western Siberia began and interest in our oil declined sharply. But our experts Western Siberia showed themselves with the best side. And not only in Siberia. This I mean that we were known not only as sellers of fruits and vegetables.
In Samara, I once went into a store and the saleswoman asked: “Where are you from?”. “From Baku,” I say. “And my friend also has a boyfriend from Baku, he trades in the market.” I wanted to say that many people who get off the train turn out to be Bakuvians. That guy had no desire to go to the market and check Russian, he took his word for it).
And let's ask ourselves: "Are we ready to go up to the same huckster in the market and ask how are you, how are the children?" No, not ready. We are higher. We are Azerbaijani students, businessmen, doctors, etc. We are better than them. And they are not ours, they are traders. True, Azerbaijanis, but not ours! Strange, isn't it?
The author is right. Because the further we go, the more we are divided. Everyone on their own.

I liked the article .. close .. but sometimes ours are also disdainful, to be honest, there is a reason .. such specimens came across.

Yes, there are those among our people whom we ourselves disdain, but Russia is full of those who cause disgust.

We talked about how our compatriots live in the Volga expanses of Russia. Now it's time to find out with whom they live there. Although, what is there to find out - after all, everyone has long known that a more or less self-respecting Azerbaijani cohabits (even marries) in Russia with a Russian. I don’t want to be known as a cosmopolitan, but still I emphasize - not with a Tatar, not with a Chuvash, and not even with an Azerbaijani (and there are many of them), but with a Russian. Why is this happening? What zest do hot Caucasian guys find in Russian beauties? How do northern arrows pierce eastern hearts? I will try to clarify how a person also turned out to be pierced by such an arrow.

1. It's easier with Russians. They don't break like ours, they don't inflate their worth. The golden rule works - be simpler, and they will reach out to you. It is to them, dear ones, that Azerbaijani (and not only Azerbaijani) men are drawn.

2. Russian girls don't try to look better than they really are. Even prostitutes, if you approach them on the street and ask - do you work? They will answer you as is. If you, God forbid, approached a decent girl, she will simply say that you confused her. And if you come up on the street with the same question to ours, even a five-shirvan b ..., then she will make such a commotion that she will not seem small. And in the end it will turn out that the virgin Mary cannot be compared with her in purity and purity, and you will be disgraced on the whole street.

3. Having fun with Russians. They are much more sociable than Azerbaijanis. They can easily drink a couple of bottles of beer with you, otherwise something stronger. I'm not talking about smoking weed yet. And ours will smoke with you except in the toilet or in the basement of a bar. The main thing is that you can easily watch football with them - no jokes about 22 idiots chasing a small ball.

4. They are unpretentious. Only with them you understand your own importance as a simple guy. Not a wallet full of money. They are even ready to pay for themselves in a restaurant, not to mention public transport or taxi.

They do not care about your social status, they are interested in you as a person and as a capable man. But in our country it is the other way around - rarely will an Azerbaijani woman need you without a house and a car.

5. They are more affectionate, more loving. They do not need to be turned on by gifts, for them you yourself are a gift. And what man does not like to feel his relevance and significance. They don't need "shampoo" or "daidai" - they just need a good person! Isn't that right, gentlemen? So, girls, do not want to sit up in the old maids - follow the above five points!

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Russian girls. Feedback from an Azerbaijani - Open Russia

I lived in Ajigabul for 23 years. My father has his own business in Baku. I didn’t need money, just as I don’t need it now. But it's not about my family and adolescence, but about Russian girls.

It was because of them, or rather because of one, that I decided to go to Moscow. The reason is an acquaintance on the Internet with Katya, a nice Russian girl with whom I corresponded for more than a year. My father did not really approve of my choice to move, and yet he did not dissuade me.

And here I am a week later in Moscow, settled in a hotel. Rented a car. I rested and corresponded with Katya, with whom we had planned a meeting. And everything would be fine if it were not for the nightlife in this city.

I have acquaintances from Baku here, restaurateurs who learned from my father that I had arrived. Then everything began to spin - restaurants, clubs. Great amount beautiful girls. All as a selection, dazzling, but at the same time all different. Beautiful, smart, groovy.

And why did I wait so long with the move? I don't understand.

I really like big, expressive eyes, light skin in Russian women. I'm just craving it.

By the way, our meeting with Katya took place a couple of days later. We walked, rode around the capital, if constant standing in traffic jams can be called skiing. Beautiful Russian girl. But I was drawn to nightlife which captivated me. And Katya is not a fan of clubs, it is better for her to go to the cinema, or to a quiet cafe. I knew about this, because we talked for more than one day, and I shared her views until I got surrounded by my club friends.

Day after day, I watched how they easily get acquainted with Russian girls, how they easily agree to go for a drive after a couple of hours of communication and a presented bouquet of roses. How their faces change when it comes to visiting restaurants they own. Yes, in Russia it is easy to impress a girl with a good car.

Not all, but the vast majority of visitors to prestigious restaurants and clubs easily find mutual language with us, representatives of Central Asia.

Russian girls also behave differently than ours. They are more accessible, right? According to our customs, you will not allow yourself such a thing, as in Russia. This is especially true for clothing. Plunging necklines, mini skirts and short dresses are a real eye-catcher.

It is easier to get acquainted with Russian women, it is easier to find a common language. They are more relaxed, they are groovy, always having fun, always positive. In a word, Russians are a lot of fun. They are much more sociable than Azerbaijanis.

I don't even want to talk about looks. May my compatriots forgive me, but there are much more beautiful Russian girls than beautiful Azerbaijani girls. Russians have a ratio, in my opinion, of 8 to 10. That is, out of ten girls, eight are beautiful, and stunning - five or six in a dozen.

Another note is the big contrast. If in a club girls need you to be treated and taken to restaurants, then in parks it is much more difficult to meet awesome women, especially if you are from the south.

This is my second third year in Russia, and I'm not going to leave yet. I really like it here. Even winter does not scare. By the way, with Katya, for the sake of whom I changed Azerbaijan to Russia, nothing worked out for us - she didn’t like my company, and I didn’t really drag her there. Why, if she doesn't need it.

Now we chat online, sometimes we drink coffee in a restaurant. Even less often - we walk. For all these years, I have not developed a serious relationship with anyone, since there are so many Russian girls. I could not stop at one, in Russia this is not realistic.

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appearance, character, types, religion, social and family relations

In our time, international marriages are the norm. Russian girls often marry foreigners, and marriages with Azerbaijanis are no exception. Why are foreign suitors preferred? What are Azerbaijani men like? First of all, oriental guys conquer girls with the ability to beautifully look after, make compliments. But is that what attracts them?

About what kind of people they are, Azerbaijani men, and will be discussed in the article.

Azerbaijanis: general characteristics of men

Most of them are short - 170-175 centimeters. They have thick black eyebrows and large facial features, but despite this, typical Caucasian facial features are absent. First of all, they have a straight nose and fair skin.

They are always strictly and elegantly dressed and look at least stylish and respectable.

They are a calm and orderly people, in comparison with other Caucasian ethnic groups. Any conflict with them is settled without shouting and fist showdowns. But their Caucasian character still manifests itself: during the celebration of national or religious holidays.

These people are long-livers, the average life expectancy of Azerbaijani men is 70-72 years. There is a village of Talysh in the republic, where the age of many residents reaches 110 years.

Characteristic features of appearance

What are they, Azerbaijani men, in appearance?

As the Soviet anthropologist Alekseev Valery noted:

• Azerbaijanis are darker-eyed than Georgians and Armenians;
• more than half of the representatives of this people have blue-black hair;
• their face is narrow and slightly elongated;
• the nose protrudes very strongly;
• the hairline is moderately developed (slightly less than that of Georgians).

Attitude towards marriage

It should be remembered that Azerbaijanis are Muslims. A man, according to Islamic traditions, can have several wives (maximum 4). This is written in the Koran, but it is not practiced in the modern state. And even if a man has several wives, he is obliged to provide for each financially, while they must live in the same conditions. That is, if he bought an apartment for one wife, then he must also purchase equivalent housing for the rest.

They are very responsible for both marriage and family. They are strictly guided by the Koran, which states that marriage is a part of religion, and the most faithful believers are those who respect and honor their wives.

It should be noted that the Koran does not prohibit marriages between a Muslim and a Russian, but it is considered better if the girl converts to Islam. Such unions are possible only if the consent of relatives is obtained.

A family

What are Azerbaijani men like in marriage?

In a family, both husband and wife have their own rights and duties.

First, a man provides materially for his family. Secondly, he is obliged to take care of his wife, her health and mental state, to pay attention to her. Men love to have a woman obey them unquestioningly, even in matters such as choosing an outfit.

As a rule, women stay at home and raise children.

Pragmatism

What are the characteristics of Azerbaijani men? Most of them are pragmatists. In society, male losers do not evoke sympathy, but on the contrary, they are condemned or even despised. That is why every man strives to achieve success and material well-being. They choose only those areas that can bring benefits. They have no such thing as "work for the soul."

Men are prone to self-irony and irony, criticism and self-criticism. They have a great sense of humor, can be cunning, love entertainment and fun. They love beautiful things, comfort and convenience, as well as very tasty food.

The character of Azerbaijani men is peaceful, but quick-tempered, if their dignity and honor, interests and feelings of close relatives are offended.

Sociability

As a rule, Azerbaijani men are sociable, love to talk, spend a lot of time with relatives and friends, often receive guests and go to visit. Celebrating holidays, arrange magnificent feasts.

Men respect women, elders, and superiors.

Many men love poetry, they themselves know how to speak beautifully, making long and eloquent toasts, often telling instructive or funny stories. The main role in communication is played by sincerity and empathy. They do not tolerate loneliness and lack of communication.

"Do not fall into the mud face"

In the circle of friends, everyone is equal, they communicate sincerely and directly. But still, a man tries to behave with restraint, never demonstrates emotions, experiences and feelings. As a rule, they are confident in society, with dignity, even if their affairs are going very badly. It's called "acting like a man."

Talking about your failures, complaining, showing your weaknesses in society is not accepted, they just laugh.

And public opinion plays a huge role in a man's life. It is important for him how he looks in the eyes of others, what they say and think about him.

Among young people, this trend is somewhat weakened, young people more freely show their individuality in behavior, clothing, and lifestyle. But for an Azerbaijani of any age, the most terrible thing is to lose dignity, to “lose one's face in the dirt”. For example, you will never see an Azerbaijani lying drunk on the street anywhere. When receiving guests, the host will put all the best on the table, even if it is the last.

Nepotism

The long stay of the Republic as part of the USSR formed a tolerant attitude towards violations of the law and abuse of office among some Azerbaijani men. They prefer to build relationships based on mutual agreement and family ties. This feature is inherent not only to Azerbaijanis, but also to many other peoples. former USSR. But it should be noted that an Azerbaijani always keeps his word, as this is a “matter of honor” for him.

Tolerance

Azerbaijani men in most cases are not nationalists. They are not characterized by xenophobia, that is, they treat representatives of other nationalities very well. They are carriers of the Soviet worldview, the only difference is that they do not consider themselves atheists.

But faith and religiosity usually does not take on the character of fanaticism.

civic dignity

Young people show such traits as national dignity. They sharply and negatively react to any attempts to insult the attributes and symbols of the state. All this is due to the fact that the new generation has already grown up in a completely independent state. The conditions of a market economy have shaped young Azerbaijanis such character traits as practicality and efficiency.

Azerbaijani men: what are they like in love and relationships

What attracts women in Azerbaijani men?

They, like all men, love with their eyes. To please such a man, you need to be beautiful and well-groomed. Men are very fond of femininity. And the more elegant and brighter a woman looks, the better. What are they, Azerbaijani men in a relationship? Men are very fond of indulging women's whims. But you need to be capricious beautifully, coquettishly.

They do not tolerate self-will and stubbornness. They are leaders by nature and do not like to be disobeyed. For a man, a woman is the keeper of the family hearth and the mother of his children. That is why they prefer her to stay at home and take care of family affairs: she cooks deliciously, does laundry, maintains order, takes care of children, and so on.

In their understanding, the best self-realization of a woman is to be a mother and wife.

On the Internet, on thematic forums, many women share their opinions on how to behave with Azerbaijani men, what kind of character they are. But the most charismatic opinion belongs to TV presenter Musevi Gunel, an Azerbaijani by origin living in the United States. She published her opinion about Azerbaijani men in the EveryAzeri online magazine. What are they, in her opinion?

• They look like a Mexican, an Englishman and an Arab put together.
• They are very reverent, respectful and loving towards their mothers.
• Self-satisfied and self-confident.
• They always walk with their heads held high and demonstrate their confidence.
• Azerbaijani men love to rule, they are big owners. You need to live by their rules and always obey, agree with all the conditions.
• They love beautiful poetry.
• They like beautiful things, fashionable clothes, branded perfumes - all this is very important to them. They are interested in fashion sometimes more than women.
• They are ready for any sacrifice for the sake of their chosen ones.
• They are very caring, they will do everything to make a woman feel happy.

Everything is changing

Young Azerbaijanis are very different from the men of the middle generation. National self-consciousness and pride are striking. They are more aware of themselves as citizens of a separate independent state.

Young people practically do not drink alcohol. Feasts are accompanied by drinking tea with oriental sweets.

Young people follow the latest movies, attend the theater, go to concerts, play dominoes or backgammon.

Modern young people are less romantic and dreamy. They are more pragmatic and hardworking. They like to devote their free time to sports, self-education, self-development.

The youth has become more individual. The accelerated pace of life has led to the fact that social ties have weakened, communication with relatives and friends has been limited. Even middle-aged men in recent times visit less and spend time with friends.

Instead of a conclusion

The article revealed the characteristic features of Azerbaijani men, what they are in love, relationships and everyday life. But remember that each person is different. One is very thrifty, another is extravagant, the third is a miser, the fourth is economical. Everything is very individual, and the character traits of an Azerbaijani man described in the article may be absolutely not characteristic of any particular person. In this case, the axioms simply do not exist ...

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Women without a past, or the love of an Azerbaijani man

Once we tried to analyze what qualities Azerbaijani women appreciate in men. And now it's time to consider the same issue from the opposite side ... So what most often attracts Azerbaijani men in women?

Meet by clothes

Let's start with the banal. Men love with their eyes, and Azerbaijani men especially. So, in order to please them, a woman, first of all, must be beautiful or, at least, well-groomed. And let Europe stand up for naturalness and artistic negligence as much as you like, but glamor, careful make-up, beautiful clothes, high heels are still popular in Azerbaijan ... In general, blatant femininity, so to speak. The brighter and more elegant the girl looks, the more chances she has to collect a collection of fluttering male hearts.

Subtleties and paradoxes of love diplomacy

If we carry out a linguistic analysis of Azerbaijani songs - both folk and composers - then, for sure, it will turn out that one of the most used words in them is the word “naz” and its derivatives ... It just so happened that in the representation of our people a woman is simply is obliged to break down and be capricious, and a man - to patiently indulge these whims. And still be touched at the same time. Such are the "marriage games" ...

So, it turns out that Azerbaijani men love capricious and touchy girls. BUT! There is one very important point - the girl must skillfully throw out all these "tricks", otherwise she will not attract, but, on the contrary, will repel this man. You need to be capricious beautifully, playfully, coquettishly, so that your loved one admires ... This is a whole art. Fortunately, most Azerbaijani girls are already born with this talent.

However, it is important not to overdo it here. Oriental men are still leaders by nature and are ready to forgive their beloved sweet whims, but not stubbornness and willfulness. Stubborn in trifles, one must obey HIM when it comes to something big. Don't want to obey? Lord, at least make an appearance. And there already...

The first and only Probably, if without guile, then almost any man, regardless of nationality, would like to be the first and only in the life of his chosen one. But for an Azerbaijani, this moment is especially painful ... He really wants to believe that the girl for all her 18, 25 or 30 years only did what she was waiting for his appearance, not being interested in anyone else, not falling in love with anyone and not meeting with anyone. In general, roughly speaking, most Azerbaijani men love women without a past. Well, or at least with a minimal past. Therefore, smart women, in order not to injure the fragile psyche of the groom, simply do not tell him about their previous relationships. True, here in Baku, where almost everyone knows each other, if not directly, then through someone, it is quite difficult to conspire. But if you try hard...

Kinder, kirche, künhe

For an Azerbaijani man, a woman is, first of all, the keeper of the hearth and the mother of his children. And in order for her to successfully cope with this responsible mission, work should not take too much of her time. It is important for our man that his wife cook delicious dolma, keep the house clean and tidy and check the lessons of the children, and not enter into contracts that will bring millions to other people's uncles.

And even if a man talks a lot and beautifully about the fact that a woman, they say, needs self-realization, that she has the right to a successful career, etc. - do not believe. All the same, deep down, he believes that there is no better career for a woman than the career of a housewife, and the best self-realization is to be a wife and mother. In general, as the Germans used to say, “kinder, kirche, künhe” - “children, church, kitchen”.

But if you decide to leave work altogether and stay at home, then this will most likely be accepted with enthusiasm ...

"Bad" girlfriends

Tek-s... It seems that the main points are stipulated. There are little things left. Such, for example, as "a good family" - moreover, each social stratum interprets this concept in its own way. For some, a good family is the impeccable reputation of mom, dad, sisters, brothers and other relatives; for someone - well-being; for others - the academic degree of parents ... In a word, there are a lot of options.

And also, it would be nice if all the girl's friends died out immediately after the wedding, or better, even earlier. Well, they didn’t die out - so they would have left for Paraguay. In general, so that they somehow disappear from the life of a girl. Because girlfriends are perceived by most men as a walking evil. It is believed that friends family life harmful and even dangerous, like a moth for a mink coat. Because they distract, negatively influence, etc., etc.

Here is such an "analysis of feelings turned out." But after all, in fact, feelings are far from always amenable to analysis, right ...?

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Marriage of a Russian woman and an Azerbaijani

Recently, international marriages in Russia have become practically the norm. Russian women often marry foreigners who come here to study or work, or they are looking for a groom from another country through marriage agencies or special dating sites. What pushes a Russian woman to marry, for example, a Muslim?

Are there really not enough local suitors? On the site intdate.ru, more than one article is devoted to this issue.

There is an opinion that the popularity of foreigners as future husbands is explained by the fact that Russian men in many ways disappoint their compatriots. They do not seek to win a woman with affection and tenderness, they do not recognize long romantic courtship, and in family life they behave in a philistine way, do not show due respect to their wife, and often become completely addicted to alcohol.

In contrast to them, Eastern men know how to beautifully look after, they know how to say compliments correctly, and they drink alcohol in small quantities and, most often, only in specially designated places. So it turns out that in general they look more advantageous.

Girls who are going to get married and move abroad for permanent residence know that in many Eastern countries the modern traditions of the West are spreading, views on the family and the position of women in the country as a whole are changing. This allows us to hope that, for example, the marriage of a Russian girl and an Azerbaijani will not result in her falling into domestic slavery in a harem.

By the way, an alliance with representatives of this people is quite common in Russia. At the same time, it often happens that it does not mean at all that the newly-made family will move to Azerbaijan. It happens that, on the contrary, Azerbaijanis marry Russians in order to obtain the legal right to work, live in the country, and eventually citizenship. It is quite possible that at the same time a man's first wife will live in Azerbaijan, to whom he will definitely send part of the money he earns.

And do not be surprised, because, according to Islamic tradition, although this is not particularly encouraged in modern Eastern states, a Muslim can have several wives - up to four. This is written in the Quran. To do this, an Azerbaijani must provide for each wife financially and, no less important, be equally fair to all his women. In view of this, many Eastern men who are not sure that they can fulfill these conditions prefer monogamous marriages.

Do Azerbaijanis marry Russian women? Of course, it is worth noting that Azerbaijanis, like, in principle, all Muslims, are very responsible towards the family. There are many happy examples of Russian + Azerbaijani, Katerina's story is proof of this. Here they are guided by the Koran, which says that marriage is half of religion, and that the best believers are those who are respectful of their wives.

As for unions with non-Muslim women, for example, the wedding of an Azerbaijani and a Russian girl, such a marriage is not prohibited by the Koran, but is considered undesirable until the other side converts to Islam.

Although, in general, the conclusion of such an alliance is quite possible if the consent of older relatives is obtained, and both parties agree to the marriage. By the way, this also applies to a wedding with a Muslim woman - the union will not be recognized if the bride is forcibly forced to marry. Another prerequisite is the presence at the ceremony of the father or male relative of the bride, as well as two witnesses - necessarily Muslims. On intdate.ru you can read about wedding traditions and other Muslim nations.

Azerbaijanis and Russian girls who are married begin to live according to certain rules. Each of the parties will henceforth have its own duties and rights. In addition to the fact that a man undertakes to provide for his family financially, he must also pay attention to his wife, take care of her spiritual development and upbringing. A woman is obliged to obey her husband in everything, up to the choice of clothes.

Divorce, according to customs, can take place if one of the spouses does not fulfill their duties. But first, the couple will simply live separately, and only then they will be officially divorced. Time is bided to make sure that the woman is not pregnant. Children are a very protected segment of the population in Muslim countries.

Undoubtedly, if an Azerbaijani and a Russian married and moved to live in Azerbaijan, then the girl will have to get used to the new country with its own traditions and customs, which, at first glance, will seem very unusual to her, if not wild. Read about how Azerbaijani traditions affect the future life of a couple in Marina's story on our website.

Firstly, it is quite likely, especially if the husband and his family do not live in a large modern city, the girl will constantly have to stay at home. Indeed, in the countryside, most of the women do not study, do not work, and, in general, do not develop in any way and do not realize themselves.

What do Azerbaijani women do? They raise children, run the household (however, in wealthy families housekeepers do this), go to visit each other (if the husband does not mind that the wife goes out), do a little gardening and gardening. The earners here are men who are most often employed in the field of trade, purchase and resale of goods.

Secondly, it is hard to get used to the way of life of believers - fasting, regular prayer rituals, religious traditions, and much more.

Thirdly, in addition to the need to get used to the local climate, Russian women are also forced to change their taste preferences - almost all the food there is very fatty, which is hard to digest. Azerbaijanis have hospitality in their blood, so their feasts are plentiful and several times a day, let alone tea drinking.

Fourthly, you will have to give up short and open dresses, trousers, bright colors in clothes and makeup, and, perhaps, if this is customary in the husband’s family, you will even need to wear a scarf. And, of course, no alcohol or tobacco use.

In general, the attitude of Azerbaijanis towards Russians, including women, is quite positive, albeit with a slight hint of disdain, as infidels. But if the girls who came to Azerbaijan respect this hospitable country, its customs and customs, then this eastern state will become a second homeland for them.

Victoria, especially for intdate.ru

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Why Azerbaijanis can only love Azerbaijanis

I have one friend. She fiercely hates almost all representatives of the Russian and Ukrainian peoples, publicly calls them prostitutes and sluts. The reason for such a great hatred, which sometimes comes to racism, I do not know and therefore I am lost in conjecture. Most likely there are purely personal reasons for this: maybe she or her close friend had some kind of Slav who took the peasant away, I don’t presume to say, but most likely this is exactly what happened. But I, as a terry liberal, are always confused by such statements in the style of the 3rd Reich. Well, you can not generalize the whole people. However, there is some truth in everything and I think it should be analyzed this question. Firstly, let's not dispute the fact - Azerbaijanis are really greedy for Russian ladies. They have exactly what they cannot find in Azerbaijanis. Mostly they take care of themselves, they are not so impregnable, they are blondes. Secondly, for a typical Azerbaijani, love is something purely physical. Came, section, inserted. That's all love. It's like a 15th teenager. The trouble is that, my brothers in sex, often remain such teenagers until 50 years old. They'll never grow up, never know true love. I honestly feel sorry for them. That's why they run to Russians and Ukrainians and my friend should not be sad. Well, these undergrowths of love are not worth it, they are not worth it.

However, I would like to write about real Azerbaijanis. A real Azerbaijani can only love a real Azerbaijani. This is not racism, by no means. We just belong to the type of people who have traditionalism in their blood. This is not a notorious mentality or religious views, which often do not give a damn about when the hormones in the blood start to play. It's something else. A normal, healthy, educated Azerbaijani who does not suffer from sexual perversions, in my purely personal opinion, can only be happy in marriage with an Azerbaijani woman with similar qualities. I will not explain this in detail, I will only say that the life of a person in a family is not only sex. Life together is conversations, discussions, and finally conflicts. Can you imagine what kind of insanity happens when a husband screams in Azerbaijani and his wife in Russian, or even worse, in Ukrainian.

Why am I writing such a non-standard post for myself? In the morning I felt how disproportionately little love we have. All my friends marry exclusively, with whatever intentions. I want to say that you need to love and marry only the right and right people for you. Do not be deceived by physical attraction, love with all parts of the body, soul and mind. Kiss and run away.

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How women live in Azerbaijan: feminism

I am a resident of the city of Baku, i.е. capital, was educated in Russian and may not know everything. But who knows? So let's go.

There is not a single woman minister in Azerbaijan. And it wasn't, as far as I know. There is only the chairman of the committee for family, women and children. The Ombudsman is a woman. There are women deputies, but not so many.

Much depends on which family the girl is born into. In an intelligent family, she will receive an education, including higher education, she will be constantly reminded of the value of knowledge, the importance of a career, and so on. In a less educated, as well as in families of immigrants from the regions, she may not be born at all. The problem of selective abortions is rather acute in Azerbaijan. The progressive part of the population considers this savagery, nevertheless, such abotry continues to be performed. The state is sluggishly fighting this, sometimes Uzists are forbidden to name the sex of the child. However, in practice, I did not see much progress. The husband's brother's wife is pregnant, and she was given the gender of the child without any problems. It is believed that the boy will become the backbone of the family, bring his wife to the house, and the girl will go to someone else's house, and even cook the dowry.

As I have already noted, in many families education is given great importance. However, the level of education in our country is quite low. It often happens that girls in remote regions are simply not allowed to go to school, especially in high school.

Again, it all depends on the family. In one family, a girl is free, she can meet guys, etc. In another, she is accompanied to school by her parents, a driver in a car, or her brother. If the parents find out that she has a boyfriend, it becomes a tragedy for the family. Therefore, girls often hide their relationship.

Virginity

The most painful issue is virginity. Every Azerbaijani woman is obliged to keep her virginity until marriage. A rare guy will agree to marry a non-virgin. An even smaller percentage will say it out loud. Therefore, hymenoplasty operations have gained great popularity. Some men divide women into "for the family" and "for a walk."

The chance for a divorced woman to remarry is rather low, since she is no longer a girl, and so on. Cohabitation before marriage is also not welcome, many do not rent apartments to unmarried couples, as corrupt police may come and say that a brothel has been found in the apartment. Claim money.

Many women work. Some even believe that it is easier for a woman to get a job than a man. In some families, the husband may forbid the wife to work, but she may not obey him. Quite a few female managers.

An Azerbaijani man considers it a shame for himself not to provide for his family, so I personally did not see those sitting on his wife's neck (but this does not mean that they do not exist). Often it is women who run the finances of the family. In Azerbaijan, great importance is attached to wealth, to look at the level, many girls wear classical style clothes, heels and gold jewelry.

The groom's relatives are obliged to give the bride gifts, gold, etc. The bride's relatives give her a dowry - furniture, dishes, etc., i.e. fully furnish the apartment. It all depends on financial capabilities, sometimes a loan is taken for these purposes. Many guests are invited to weddings, from 100 to 500 people (200-250 on average), who bring money. You can not come to the wedding, but it is desirable to send money. If one of the spouses was at your wedding, you are obliged to send money, as if to repay the debt. Often at the wedding they earn extra money, which normally goes to the newlyweds.

In Baku, it is also customary for the groom's family to provide the newlyweds with a separate apartment. But not everyone does this.

In rural areas, family marriages, marriages between cousins, etc. are common. Grandmother suggested that I marry her brother's son (grandmother is the eldest child, that her brother was the youngest of 5 children, so his son was only 5 years older than me). I refused.

Arranged marriages are also quite common. The boy's mother can look for a suitable match for him. At the same time, it’s not a fact that the guy himself agrees to this, there are disputes in families because of this, the question is who will squeeze whom. It's the same with girls, some are more malleable, others have been raised to be more independent.

After marriage, pressure from relatives on the subject of children begins. Many people give birth in the first year after the wedding. Almost everyone around them is interested in the issue of offspring - as soon as 1-2 months have passed after the wedding, a flurry of questions falls upon the newlyweds. Is there even a special word - birshey-mirshey var? Those. is there anything? Children in our time in the family on average 2-3.

Housekeeping often lies entirely with the woman. The traditional distribution - the husband must bring money to the family, the wife - to take care of everyday life. However, since many women work, the picture is bleak.

The institute of nannies, au pairs and cleaning companies, where men also work, is developed in the capital. In the provinces, this is much more difficult.

In rural areas, and, to be honest, in urban areas, the problem of housing is acute. The older generation is often against the separation of the younger, so that the sons bring their daughters-in-law to their father's house. There, all the housework falls on them.

Due to the difficult financial situation, the husband can leave, for example, to Russia to work. There he can both start an unofficial second family, and officially marry if the marriage is not registered here (which sometimes happens in the villages as well). And the poor wife stays with her father-in-law and serves them in everything ...

It should be noted that, for example, Baku is an oil city. If you could more or less stick to this area, everything will be fine with you, you will be rich, etc. There is money, not everyone, but there is ... And when there is money, there are benefits. If not, if you live in the region, you can only feel sorry for...

There is much more to write, but for now I'll stop there. Ask questions, I'll be happy to answer)

Enmity between Armenians and Azerbaijanis and got the best answer

Answer from Mikhail Karpenkov[guru]
How what? Territories, in particular Karabakh.
Also keep in mind that Armenians are Christians, Azerbaijanis are Muslims!
Samvelych
Guru
(3675)
Armenians are not Caucasians but Indo-Europeans (a related group to the Greeks) in the Aryan family, Azerbaijanis are also not Caucasians but Turks ...

Answer from sasha[guru]
Nagorno-Karabakh.

Answer from Yoamvelych[guru]
not allegedly, but a fact recognized by half of the civilized world ... Azerbaijanis are the same Turks, who also (in the majority) wanted (want) the complete destruction of the Armenians ... look at the "great Turan" there was no place for Armenia (bone in the throat), imperialist and chauvinistic ambitions remained (Karabakh88-94), broke off, so they don’t like it.
the Turks were barbarian nomadic tribes, and fought with all their neighbors (someone was completely destroyed, someone was Turkified), the same fate awaited the Armenians, the Armenians resisted, they wanted to live, so they don’t like ...

Answer from Elik farik[guru]
Whoever does not know history, let this answer not be answered by the Armenians who moved to Nagorno-Karabakh after the Turkmenchay Treaty of 1828, not only from Turkey and Iran before them, Turks lived in these lands and Udins Udins were Christians who were the first to accept Christianity in Kafkaz (proof of the temple in the city of Sheki the most ancient temple) but when the Arabs seized these lands, part of the Udis converted to Islam and others remained Christians in Nagorno-Karabakh there are temples of Gandzasar Dadivank which belong to the Udins, but in 1836 Tsarist Russia forcibly united them to the Grigoryan Church and all their documents were destroyed even their alphabet Armenians appropriated and these in Soviet times, the surnames of the Udins were changed so that they would be given out as Armenians, the ending of their surnames became Yang, but they are not Armenians of the Udins, not only in Nagorno-Karabakh, they live in Belokan in Sheki and in the Oguz region and they have churches there until the 8th century there was a state of Kafkaz Albania there, not only they were Turks Lezgins Georgians as many as 26 tribes lived and kt o says that Nagorno-Karabakh belongs to the Armenians, they blatantly lie who does not believe, let him enter the page of my answers, there you will find a lot in Oudins and Nagorno-Karabakh and find out who is right and who is wrong, and in the end I want to say that we mourn the memory of Khojlans who were exterminated on February 26 Armenians in Nagorno-Karabakh are empty, God will punish them for this

Answer from snowboarder[guru]
elik farik do you even understand what you write?
Go to the site link and translate the word "treasure" (gandz) into Armenian and listen to the translation, and then translate the word "mountains" (sar) into Armenian and listen to the translation. GANDZASAR translated from Armenian means "mountain of treasures". And that the Udins gave the church an Armenian name?
Wikipedia link about Gandzasar and Dadivank (it clearly says that these are Armenian churches)
I visited Gandzasar last summer and I can confidently say that this is Armenian architecture (at least before you write anything, study a little books on Architecture). in the same way you can translate the words "monastery" (VANK) and listen to the translation, etc.
And lastly, where is your source of information? than in native sites? Can you give an international source like Wikipedia, where it says this?

Answer from Pollopa prldyo[newbie]
The Armenians in any honest battles and battles tore the Turks until they beat them from the back! Azerbaijanis are nomads who want Karabakh, but do not understand that it is impossible to defeat the people! Their leadership understands that they will not be able to defeat the Armenians with any military actions, they are not guarding corn there either, Armenia has a combat-ready army! Just to keep themselves on their chairs, they imitate a war with hundreds of soldiers losing, and trying to hide the losses at any cost

Answer from Danil Gusenov[newbie]
Armenians Know that they live on Azerbaijani soil Even President Serzh Sargsyan
Armenian politician
Armenian political, state and military figure. President of Armenia since 2008. Wikipedia
Born June 30, 1954 (age 62), Stepanakert, Nagorno-Karabakh Autonomous Region, Azerbaijan SSR, USSR
Party Republican Party of Armenia
Married to Rita Sargsyan (since 1983)
ParentsNora Sargsyan, Azat Sargsyan
ChildrenAnush Sargsyan, Satenik Sargsyan

Answer from Jalala[newbie]
Great Armenia existed before Tigran 2, after the defeat of Tigran 2, Pompey no longer had Great Armenia. After more than 20 centuries from BC. e until the 1819 Turkmenchay treaty between Russia and Iran, the Khays were resettled in the Irevan Khanate (one of the provinces or khanates of Azerbaijan) The Khays were resettled from Maragi (Iran) and Turkey. All evidence of the census, the Turkmenchay Treaty is in the historical documents of R. F. Modern Armenia is a monopoly republic, which is a "cushion" in the Caucasus, between Turkey and Azerbaijan and Iran. From that, Armenia is protected by the Russian base. As Zhirinovsky says, who is Armenia without Russia? The territory of the Iravan Khanate is the first pretext for hating Azerbaijanis towards Armenians, then, on the orders of Stalin, the territory of Azerbaijan - Zengezur was given away, since the 1850s, a sponsored gang of Armenian terrorists known throughout the world - Dashnaks, Asala, Fidains, etc., committed quite a few terrorist attacks and murders on the territory of the Caucasus and not only. 1905 attacks on Baku led by the Bolgishites, in 1918 more than 30 thousand people were killed in 2 days .. and so on until 1989, the reprisals of Azerbaijanis living in Armenia during the USSR, from which Sumgayit flared up. 1990 - 1992
On January 20, led by Gorbachev's army and the Armenian armed forces in one night, tanks ran over civilians and killed more than 100 people. 1994, according to the planned scenario, Karabakh was taken. Killed more than 5 thousand people, children and women of the elderly. More than 10 thousand were taken prisoner and are still in captivity. Every year, soldiers are lowered on the military borders of Karabakh. The Armenians insert a grenade into the dolls and lower them down the river, so in the past. one girl died.
This is what I wrote in general. There is not a single fact of attacks on Armenians by Azerbaijanis in history. (Sumgayit is a planned action, 32 people died, of which half were Azerbaijanis and half were Armenians)
Are you still saying why Azerbaijanis do not like Armenians??? Because this is a gang of hai - terrorists and murderers. Who are brought up to hate the Turks.
Although there was no Armenian genocide. This is an invented and pro-PR story of the Armenian lobby. Turkey has repeatedly announced the raising of historical documents, but the Armenian government refuses - because they are lying and they have no evidence.

Answer from Rishad lowcar[active]
Armenians are a people trying to prove that they are "tyrean". Stealing the culture of all countries around.
And being alone among the Turkic peoples in a geographical position. So who are they? Where did they come from? Aryans? Don't tell me ..) Were you white before 1915? yes, no) just a people who lived in Iran, Turkey, Russia.

Answer from Rashad Chan[newbie]
The Turks and the Russian government are to blame for everything. It was they who resettled the Armenians from Anatolia to the Caucasus. On May 26, 1918, Georgians self-determined, on May 28 - Azerbaijanis. Then the lands, due to which the whole West wanted to create Armenia, were under the yoke of Ottoman Turkey. In order not to cede to the Armenians even a millimeter of "their" lands, the Turks presented the Russians with the keys to the Transcaucasus. You never know, and on the basis of the Batumi Treaty on May 11 - June 4, the Azerbaijanis had to cede 12,000 square meters to the Armenians. km for the self-determination of the Armenian people. And then already in 1920 the western part of Zangezur, in 1921 the lands from the borders with Georgia to Kelbajar, in 1922 part of the Georgian lands were given to the Armenians. The area of ​​Armenia, recognized by Turkey on June 4, 1918, was 12,000 square meters. km. Now the area of ​​Armenia is 29.743 sq. km. And no one realizes how from 1920 to 1922 they blinded the Armenian SSR - today's Armenia?

The political reality of our entire region cannot be imagined without the Republic of Azerbaijan, a state located in the east of the region. Azerbaijan's advantages are its favorable geographical location and significant oil and gas reserves. A significant part of Azerbaijan is located on the Great Silk Road, which once connected Europe with the countries of Central Asia and the classical East. And if the newborn Azerbaijan Democratic Republic (ADR) was not perceived by many politicians of the early 20th century as a serious and stable state entity, then the modern Azerbaijan Republic is a geopolitical reality that cannot be ignored.

For the first time, the self-proclamation of the ADR occurred as a result of the overthrow of tsarism in Russia and, as a result, the collapse of the Russian Empire. Then a lot of territories fell away from Russia, including Transcaucasia. At the end of May 1918, Armenians, Georgians and Caucasian Tatars, or, as they were also called, Transcaucasian Turks (Turks), proclaimed their states, respectively named the Republic of Armenia, the Georgian Democratic Republic and the Azerbaijan Democratic Republic. But if the Armenians and Georgians already had centuries-old traditions of their own statehood, then the Transcaucasian Turks who came to the region acquired statehood for the first time, and did not have a numerical advantage in the territory proclaimed by the Azerbaijan Democratic Republic. Most of the population of the newly formed republic consisted of indigenous Armenians, Talyshs, Lezgins, Parsi, Avars, Tsakhurs, Udins, and other remnants of Albanian tribes.

The proclamation by the Transcaucasian Turks of "their" national state became possible only as a result of the military intervention of the regular Turkish army under the command of General Nuri. But even after that, the puppet government of the Azerbaijan Democratic Republic could not enter Baku, proclaimed the capital of the ADR, for more than a hundred days. On September 15, 1918, Baku was captured by the Turkish army, on the bayonets of which the government of Azerbaijan entered the city. The fall of Baku, which was defended by representatives of almost all nationalities inhabiting the city, ended in a bloody massacre of the Christian population, primarily Armenians. As a result of a three-day orgy of Turkish askers and armed bands of Transcaucasian Turks, over 30,000 residents of Armenian nationality were slaughtered in the city.

The name "Azerbaijan" was the result of a pan-Turkism strategy aimed at preparing the ground for future territorial claims to neighboring Iran, whose northern provinces have been bearing this name for almost two and a half millennia. Answering the puzzled question of Baku students, the historian, academician V.V. Bartold wrote: "... the term Azerbaijan was chosen because when the Republic of Azerbaijan was established, it was assumed that Persian and this Azerbaijan would form one whole ... On this basis, the name Azerbaijan was adopted."

Thus the new public education, so, by the way, and not recognized by the League of Nations and the world community, from its very inception pursued and planned annexationist and assimilation goals. These goals of the Republic of Azerbaijan have not lost their relevance to this day. It is symptomatic that the Azerbaijanis from Iran were not invited to the Second Congress of World Azerbaijanis, held in Baku in mid-March 2006. Baku officials said they do not consider them a diaspora. The explanations of Baku officials were as follows: the diaspora lives outside the homeland, and the northern provinces of Iran populated by the Azerbaijani population are a temporarily detached part of the Republic of Azerbaijan.

In this regard, the statement of the ex-president of Azerbaijan A. Elchibey, made by him in the spring of 2000 in Ankara, is characteristic: “Forty million Azerbaijani Turks and seventy million Anatolian Turks must unite and create a state of 110 million people, a powerful regional giant, whose opinion the whole world would listen to ". This statement by Elchibey, who among the "Azerbaijani Turks" "counted" the Turkic-speaking population of Iran, not only concerns the territorial integrity of Iran, the Turkic-speaking Iranians of the northern provinces of which he indiscriminately ranked as Turks, but also completely ignores both the civil and national rights of those living in Azerbaijan and Turkey non-Turkic peoples. What to do with about 15-20 million Kurds in Turkey, who do not want to become Turks, or, for example, five million Zaza people in Turkey? What about the Lezgins and Talyshs, Avars and Udins, Parsi, Kurds and Tsakhurs living in the Republic of Azerbaijan, who have nothing to do with the Turks? On the other hand, this statement, like many similar ones, is a clear and ominous illustration of the annexationist meaning of the name of the Republic of Azerbaijan and the expansionist policy of this state.

From the very first days of its proclamation in May 1918, the Republic of Azerbaijan made claims to the vast territories of Georgia and Armenia. At the same time, an active and aggressive policy of forcible assimilation of the ancient autochthonous peoples, primarily the Udis, Parsi, Talysh and Lezgins, was carried out on the proclaimed territory of the republic.

It should be said that such a policy required a lot of resourcefulness from the Baku authorities. Actually, the Turkic forces in the republic were clearly not enough. It was necessary to convince (or force) the assimilated peoples to fight for living space for the Turkish assimilationists. And the government of Azerbaijan took up the exploitation of the religious feelings of the inhabitants of the country. This was all the more convenient because the self-name of the Transcaucasian Turks was, and still is, Muslim. And the vast majority of the inhabitants of the state called Azerbaijan were also Muslims.

Nevertheless, this circumstance did not prevent the Muslim Turks from oppressing in every possible way both the co-religionists of the Shiites and the Sunnis of Azerbaijan. In fact, the state has adopted a non-religious policy of pan-Turkism. From this point of view, all non-Turkic residents of the Republic of Azerbaijan were perceived by representatives of the Turkic tribes, if not as direct enemies, then as an unfortunate and undesirable hindrance on the path of building a Turkic state. And there were many of them: Iranian-speaking Talysh, Kurds and Parsi; Caucasian-speaking Lezgins, Avars, Tsakhurs, Udis, peoples of the Shahdag group: Kryz, Khinalug, Dzhek, Budukh, Gaputli, etc. This is not counting the Armenians, naturally perceived by the Turks as the most undesirable nation in the new-found state.

The Sovietization of Azerbaijan did not affect the internal and external assimilation policy of this state in any way. Moreover, the process of assimilation of the non-Turkic peoples of the republic took on a particularly massive character after the strong-willed decision of Stalin in 1936, the Turkic tribes of Azerbaijan began to be called Azerbaijanis. The actual absurdity, when motley newcomer nomadic tribes, having created a state on Turkish bayonets, called it Azerbaijan, then themselves "became" Azerbaijanis, led to their perception as the titular nation of the republic. Meanwhile, on the territory of the modern Republic of Azerbaijan, aboriginal peoples lived for millennia, which today are presented (and perceived!) by official propaganda as national minorities.

The self-proclamation of the Republic of Azerbaijan in May 1918 became possible as a result of the actual occupation of the territory of autochthonous Armenians, Talysh, Udis, Lezgins and other peoples inhabiting the southeast of Transcaucasia, whose resistance was broken with the help of the Turkish regular army. The resistance of the Armenians, Talysh and Lezgins was especially active. Thus, the armies of the Caucasian Turks failed to capture the mountainous regions of Artsakh inhabited by Armenians, as well as part of the territory of Utik.

Strong resistance was also offered to the invaders on the territory of the Talysh Khanate, where the Talysh-Mugan Soviet Republic was even proclaimed by the population in the spring of 1919. This state formation lasted a little over a year, after which it was drowned in blood with the help of the Turkish irregular army. Nevertheless, recurrences of Talysh resistance to Turkic domination took place even after the establishment of Soviet power.

No less fierce was the resistance of the Lezgins and Avars, which ceased long after the establishment of Soviet power in Azerbaijan. So, it was quite bloody aimed at getting out of Az. SSR uprising of the Avars in 1930-31. Then, under the pretext of creating collective farms, large land plots were seized from the Avars in favor of the Transcaucasian Turks.

It must be said that the Sovietization of Azerbaijan took place in the conditions of a mass collapse of the borders proclaimed by the Azerbaijan Democratic Republic. As a result of the defeat of the Central Powers in the First World War, Turkey was forced in November 1918 to leave most of the Transcaucasus. Having lost the most important strategic partner, the "parent" who fought for the preservation of the occupied territories and the acquisition of new territories for Azerbaijan, Baku rapidly began to lose both the territories it really controlled and the territories it had only proclaimed. South Lezgistan withdrew from subjugation, the Talysh-Mugan Republic was proclaimed, Artsakh achieved independence ... On the border with Armenia, the Turks suffered defeats, Tbilisi presented its claims to the Zakatalsky district, which fixed the belonging of the region to Georgia in the Constitution adopted by the Parliament.

In 1919, Azerbaijan lost control over Sharur-Daralagyaz and Nakhichevan, as well as the upland part of the Kazakh district. Under these conditions, the entry of the 11th Red Army, now presented by Baku propaganda as the occupation of Azerbaijan, became a salvation for this republic. Soviet troops, continuing the work of the Turkish army, albeit from completely different motives, not only helped Azerbaijan survive, but also acquired new territories for it: the Zagatala district, Artsakh, Nakhichevan, South Lezgistan, the Talysh-Mugan Republic.

Nevertheless, the resistance of the indigenous peoples inhabiting the republic did not stop. This was another reason why, during the Sovietization, Azerbaijan was declared an international republic, which contributed to the weakening of the resistance of non-Turkic ethnic groups. The nations and nationalities living in the republic began to perceive themselves as carriers of statehood. The circumstance that it was the only Soviet republic that did not bear the name of the titular people, which simply did not exist, also helped to deceive them (let's not forget, the nation called "Azerbaijanis" simply did not exist yet).

The Soviet government retained the name "Azerbaijan Republic" for the territory, adding to it the definition "Soviet socialist". In general, the word "Azerbaijan" was a "gift of fate" for the Bolsheviks, because it contributed to the political and ideological "justification" of attempts to export the Bolshevik revolution to the territory of Iran, as well as the presentation of territorial claims to Tehran. The plans of Bolshevism and Pan-Turkism in this regard were almost identical, and the Turks unwittingly did all the "rough" work for the Bolsheviks.

To answer the question why Armenians do not like Azerbaijanis, one should turn to the history of the two peoples, and then it will become more or less clear why for more than a century between them, acute conflicts have been fading, then re-emerging, leading to mass clashes and a large number victims.

First, these two peoples profess different religions.

The Armenians were the first people in the world to adopt Christianity as their state religion. This happened in 301 AD. For more than 18 centuries, despite all the historical troubles, Armenia has been professing Christianity.

Azerbaijanis adhere to Shiite Islam. In this they differ from their close relatives, the Turks, who profess Sunnism.

Secondly, the penetration of Armenians into the territory where their country is now located began several thousand years ago. There are several hypotheses about exactly when. According to one, the Armenians are part of the Phrygians who migrated to the east around 7-8 centuries BC. According to another hypothesis, the Armenians live on their territory even longer, which is recorded in the Hittite hieroglyphic sources. How true both assumptions are is the subject of scientific debate.

Azerbaijanis migrated to Transcaucasia already before the eyes of medieval historians. The Turkization of the former Caucasian Albania (an ancient and early medieval state) began around the 11th century AD.

Thirdly, in early XIX century Russian empire began to pursue a policy of repatriation of Armenians on the territory of the former Turkic khanates conquered as a result of the Russian-Persian wars of 1804-1813 and 1826-1828. It is believed that the Muslims of Transcaucasia have always felt themselves part of a single Muslim world, while the Armenians have perceived themselves as a separate nation for many centuries. Obviously, when returning to their ancestral lands, the Armenians were not inclined to get along easily with people who were perceived as "invaders". In addition, in tsarist Russia there were certain restrictions on the participation of non-Christians in the affairs of the state, which led to political discrimination against the Azerbaijani population.

Finally, the events of the beginning of the 20th century laid the foundation for the irreconcilable enmity between these two peoples. During the revolution of 1905, the so-called Armenian-Tatar massacre broke out (in Russia, Azerbaijanis were then called Transcaucasian Tatars). Ethnic problems escalated during the period of anarchy after October revolution which led to the Armenian-Azerbaijani war of 1918-1920. Each military clash between Armenians and Azerbaijanis was accompanied by heavy losses among the civilian population, which could not but provoke new conflicts.

For a long time, in contact with each other, Azerbaijanis and Armenians clashed a lot. Differences in language, culture and religion, multiplied by the high population density of Transcaucasia and the relatively small amount of free land, often gave rise to interethnic clashes.

The end of the 20th century was marked by a new full-scale crisis in Armenian-Azerbaijani relations: in 1988, the Karabakh conflict broke out, which led to full-fledged military operations in 1991-1994. The status of the Nagorno-Karabakh Republic remains controversial to this day.