A detailed instruction for women about the thoughts of a man.

In order for the chosen one of your heart not to forget that he is the chosen one, he needs help. Namely: try to make him think about you, even when you are not around. In this article, we will teach you little harmless tricks that psychologists advise you to use.

How to make a man think about you: psychology

We women are very emotional are creatures. And when we fall in love, all our thoughts are occupied with the person we love. Naturally, we expect the same in return. So we want our man to think about us, remember during the day.

But, unfortunately (or fortunately?), The brain of the strong half of humanity is arranged differently: it thinks only about what it is doing at a particular moment. If the man is not yet one of your gentlemen, then follow these recommendations:

• try to please a man externally. It's no secret that men love pretty well-groomed women. Plus, beautiful clothes that emphasize the figure (or, conversely, hide its flaws), a stylish hairstyle and high heels - and feel free to catch his eye as often as possible
• share it with him hobbies, men really appreciate women who are passionate about the same things as himself. Find out about his hobby, and go for a morning run, volleyball. Talk to him about fishing, chess, football. Of course, you first need to read the relevant literature, and to play sports, buy beautiful sportswear.
• smile more often. Men love cheerful and positive ladies. Try to tell as cheerfully and interestingly as possible about how you visited some kind of exhibition or performance. If a man gets to this event, he will definitely remember you
• flirt - this technique works flawlessly. Talk to him in a playful, flirtatious manner. All men love it when they build eyes. But don't overdo it. He should not think that you are easy prey.
• be mysteriously th. Remember that men are always attracted to a woman shrouded in a veil of secrecy. You do not need to tell him everything about yourself in the smallest details. Do not rush to lay out who called you now and what you did last night. Leave some room for speculation
• call a man feeling of hunting. Remember that the stronger sex appreciates those women who are difficult to achieve. Do not immediately agree to a date, give him the opportunity to overcome all the obstacles and obstacles on the way to you

Now consider psychological ways to make a man think about you if you are already in a relationship with him.

• donate him what he will use constantly.
  It's great if you give him something that he can use every day - a belt, a key chain, a bag. A beautiful unusual cup is great for these purposes. Then starting the morning with a cup of coffee, he will involuntarily start his day thinking about you.
• write cute sms. Remind a man about yourself through short messages. He will be pleased to receive a wish for a good morning or a good day. You can congratulate on some minor funny holiday: the day of the invention of the electric light bulb or the Independence Day of Zimbabwe. Of course, this advice is suitable if your chosen one has a sense of humor.
• try like his friends. Although men do not admit it, the opinion of their friends about their lady of the heart is very important for them. Therefore, your task is to charm his entire company and find a common language with it.
• “forget” something from him. If you sometimes visit his apartment, "accidentally" leave some thing there: a hairpin, a scarf, earrings. It will remind him of you
• keep own hobbies. A man quickly loses his passion for a woman who lives only in his interests. He should know that you live a busy life, you have many friends and your own hobbies. If you refuse to date a man for a macrame course, you can be sure that he will be very surprised and will think about you
• be available not always. Take advantage of the technique closer - farther". Sometimes move away from him: refuse a date, turn off the phone for a while. And after a while, show special tenderness and affection. Again, be a little cold. Do not hesitate, this will make a man wonder what exactly you feel for him at the moment.

Very efficient in a psychological way to tie a person to oneself is the method of the so-called "anchor". It consists in the fact that some feelings of a man (of course, pleasant) are associated with you:

• flavors - Choose for yourself the spirits that your knight likes, and use them constantly. The bedroom should also have its own pleasant smell. And if a man hears a familiar aroma somewhere, he will definitely remember you.
• touch - choose a moment when he experiences strong positive emotions (fun, joy), and touch before him. The next time you touch this part of the man's body, his subconscious mind will kick in and he will feel satisfied. Of course, you need to do such a “trick” with a “touch anchor” at least 7 times.
• the words. Psychologists say that if during orgasm men, say something statement(love me, think of me, desire me), then he will be programmed to fulfill it. Of course, a request to buy a necklace or transfer an apartment to you here will work in the opposite direction. Or, in moments when your gentleman is very well, name some word that is appropriate in this situation. Subsequently, hearing it, the man will remember those minutes and about you.

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How to make a man think about you from a distance?

It is not difficult to inspire a man with thoughts about you, when there is an opportunity to periodically “flicker” in front of his eyes. But how to do it when you are not around? There are such methods:

• psychological. The simplest and at the same time the most complex method is to make a man feel bored. Don't call him for the first few days. If he himself does not guess to make a call, remind him of himself with a cheerful SMS. You can arrange a pleasant surprise - order his favorite dish in the restaurant and send it to the address. But at the same time, do not forget to pretend that you have enough interesting activities and there is simply no time to be sad from separation from a man
• one more trick - indirect. But here you need an assistant who often communicates with your lover at work or in a company. At every opportunity, he should mention you (of course, you only need to say good things) or call you on some “important” issue in the presence of the object of adoration
• if the male is a user in in social networks, join the group in which he is a member, and take an active part in the discussion of topics. You can leave some witty messages on the wall
• some psychologists advise borrow money from a man. Moreover, the longer the period for repaying the debt, the stronger the thoughts about you will be. You can take this advice with a smile, but there is still a reasonable grain in this. Especially if, when returning the amount to your hero, you describe how he helped you out
• mental trick - it is a kind of hypnotic suggestion at a distance. A well-directed thought sometimes becomes magical

Every day at night, when the object of your passion is supposed to be asleep, do the following:

• lie down, relax your body and free yourself from all thoughts
• imagine in all the details the image of a loved one
• when this image is bright and clear, mentally move into his body and brain
• send clear commands and images related to you
• do this exercise every day for at least one month, although results may appear sooner
• do not tell anyone about the practice being performed, as other people's thoughts often interfere with achieving results

How to make a married man think about you?

As they say, you can't command your heart. And many girls fall in love with men who are already married. These young ladies are ready for anything, if only the object of their passion reciprocates. The technique that allows you to make a married person think about you is slightly different from that used for a bachelor:

• draw attention to your appearance. Dress brightly and sexy so that the man involuntarily follows you with his eyes. You can ask him if he likes your dress
• intrigue. If, meeting every day at the office, you said hello, stop doing it. A man will certainly be tormented by guesses why this happened. Carry an unusual thing with you (pendant, office tool, clutch), which attracts attention and raises a lot of questions with its appearance
• manifest interest. Smile coquettishly as you pass by. When talking, be keenly interested in his opinion, ask questions. Show how interesting it is for you to communicate with him, even if at first it will be boring
• ask him for help. A man always feels like a hero if a lady asks to do something that she herself “can never do”
• do not impose. Do not bombard a married person with SMS - messages, gifts. Limit the number of calls, do not say hello through friends, do not make dates. All this a man should want to do himself in relation to you
• be proficient in sex. Remember that you must be better than your wife in everything, but in sex in the first place. Often a “married man” plunges into love adventures precisely for the sake of intimate variety.
• call jealousy. A man should know that he is not the center of the universe, and you may have admirers. Try to "accidentally" see you with a bouquet of flowers or hear how affectionately you are talking to someone on the phone. Of course, you should not go too far, be able to determine the line beyond which it is dangerous to go
• appreciate his attention - always demonstrate how valuable and important his gifts or just the attention he gives you
• be perfect, try to find out from a man what kind of woman he has always dreamed of, and become that for him

But before using these tips, think about whether you need this person? After all, the destruction of someone else's family, especially in the presence of small children, does not always lead to the desired result.

How to make a man think about you: ritual, conspiracy

All women have a part of witchcraft. Passion for various fortune-telling, conspiracies is inherent in us by nature. Think magic only happens in fairy tales? Try the conspiracies offered by modern magicians and sorcerers.

Method 1:

• during a joint feast, take a glass of wine from which you have already drunk
• pour some into the man's glass
• say: "Drink, drink up, and remember me"
• of course, this must be done imperceptibly from the object of love

Method 2:

• make yeast dough
• put it in the oven (oven)
• scoop up the sour liquid with a thimble three times and drink
• say: “the dough lies next to my heart, and (man’s name) will have a thought about me”

Method 3:

• take 3 thin wax candles
• weave them together
• say: “there are candles among themselves, and we will be merged with you”
• light the candles
• keep saying: “I light the candles, kindle your love, open the heart (name of the man). Amen"
  burn candles 9 times every day

Method 4:

• Dissolve 2 tablespoons of honey in a glass of water
  have a drink
• above the elbow right hand knit a white cloth
• on the left in the same way, knit a black fabric
• focus your thoughts on your loved one
• in the forest nearby, stick three wax candles into the ground in the cardinal directions - south, north, east
  light them up
• think about the chosen one and say his name three times
• through left shoulder turn around three times
• leave without looking back

Method 5:

• prepare an infusion of lemon balm
• get up before sunrise
• wash your face with the prepared decoction
• drink a little
• at the same time with these actions, remember about the man and what thoughts you want to evoke in him
• you can say the following words: “Fire of love, fly to the one about whom the heart is beating. And let him think of me

Method 6:

• perform the ceremony on Friday on the growing moon
• take two wax red candles
• write your name on one and the man's name on the other
• light the candles
• collect the first drops of melted wax from each candle with different fingers
• rub your fingers together
• in the following days, repeat the ritual by placing your photos under the candles and placing the candles closer to each other
• complete the ceremony next Friday
• collect the wax that dripped in the photo and put it in a red rag bag
• keep it under your pillow

Remember, it doesn’t matter what kind of words you utter during the rituals, the main thing is that they come from a pure heart and wish good.

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Esoteric: how to make a man think about you

Esoteric knowledge helps a person to manage the material world through the spiritual. In order for the man to whom you are not indifferent to remember you, experts suggest trying the following practices:

• imagine you together. This is the easiest exercise. Often imagine yourself next to your chosen one. Draw bright pictures of spending time together, where both of you are happy and cheerful. Think about how great you are together. A positive attitude often attracts good things to life.
• make him think about yourself. Being in the same room with the chosen one, mentally draw a beam of blue color from the center of your forehead to the center of his forehead (possibly to the back of the head). When you feel that the beam has become strong, transmit affirmations along it - orders like “you love (your name)”, “you think about (your name)”, etc.
• dream of your loved one. Think you can't control dreams? Esotericists say the opposite. Before going to bed, while lying in bed, think about the man you want to dream about. Imagine only good things about him, remember the pleasant events associated with him. And when you are dreaming enough, say the words three times: “To see you (the name of the man) bright dreams with (your name)”
• charge food or drink. This method is often used by women in India. Before preparing dinner for your loved one, comb your hair back, put on clean clothes. Cook while singing a love song and saying sweet words about your man. Put all your love into the dish. Food charged with such positive energy has, in truth, a magical property. Do not hesitate, your gentleman will only think about the woman who prepared this miracle.

In order for these actions to lead to a positive result, remember the mandatory rules:

• exercise only when good health and emotional well-being. If you feel unwell, postpone
• thoughts should be clear, without fuss. If you can't concentrate, nothing will work
• pursue only good intentions I. Do not try to take revenge on a person or have fun with his feelings with the help of esoteric practices. Your thoughts must be pure
• be sure of success, and you will succeed

How do you know if a man is thinking about you?

When we are in love, all our thoughts wind around the object of sympathy. And we are very interested in what a man feels towards us, does he reciprocate? Pride does not allow asking, and men will not always tell the truth.

How to find out? Let's try to figure it out with the help of the advice of psychologists. In the event that you are still little acquainted with a man, the proof of his indifference is his behavior, gestures, facial expressions:

• flashes before the eyes. If a man is interested in you, he tries his best more likely to come into view and constantly spinning around, asking questions (in your opinion, rather stupid) and trying to draw into the conversation
• behaves unusually - begins to brag about his exploits, deliberately laughs out loud at your jokes, tries to attract attention
• monitors posture. When a man wants to show himself in all its glory, he stands straight in front of you, trying to draw in his stomach, his legs can be slightly apart
• feet turned towards you. An interested man will have the toes of his shoes turned towards you.
• touches you during a conversation - holding your elbow or shoulder, a man seems to demonstrate to the world his rights to you
• shares his things, offering a sweater or jacket, a man shows that everything he owns, he is ready to share with you

It is not difficult to understand that a man is interested in you

Now we will tell you how to understand if a man with whom you are already in a relationship is thinking about you. The thoughts of your chosen one are always occupied by you if he:

• often calls- he calls you several times a day, just to hear a voice and ask a banal "How are you?"
• writes sms- he writes you in the morning messages “Hello”, “ Have a good day”,“ I miss you ”, and during the day sends some pictures or funny photos
• calls back without fail, does not ignore your calls. When he sees the missed one, he calls at the first opportunity and asks what you wanted
• gets angry if you don't answer the phone. Seeing a bunch of missed calls from a loved one, you call, thinking that he will be delighted. But in response you can hear an annoyed “What have you been so busy with?” or “Why do you even need a phone then?” Do not hesitate, he was just worried and thinking about you.
• jealous having heard that you are talking on the phone with a man, he will definitely ask who it is and what he wanted from you. And he doesn't like male co-workers either.
• Don't wear things you don't approve of. A man refuses his favorite T-shirt after hearing that you can't stand it. He can also refuse a mustache if you don't like it.
• does pleasant surprises. Remembers what flowers you like, what spirits you prefer. And it can completely unexpectedly give a book that you once mentioned. This means that he listens to you and thinks about how to please you.
• asks for your photo, constantly demands to send your photo, and if he does not receive it, he photographs you himself and puts it on the phone. Therefore, we advise you to still send your successful photo, which he will show to everyone
• tells his friends about you. And not only tells, but also mentions on any occasion: how you cook, what you read, what you are fond of
• planning a pastime. Even before you have time to part, it already talks about what you will do on the weekend and where you will go

We hope that our advice will help to correctly interpret the behavior of a man, and unnecessary worries will not overshadow your mood.

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Conspiracies partially affect the will of another person. If you need to draw attention to yourself or remind a man of yourself, a woman uses simple and trouble-free magic. A conspiracy to longing acts instantly: a man begins to have dreams about the woman who performed the ceremony, he not only misses, but needs the presence of the one who bewitched him.

A conspiracy is the direction of energy to obtain a certain benefit. Such magic words are used to attract a man or remind him of himself: this is not just a call, this is not entailed. A man is not attached to a woman, but feels a strong attraction to her. The spell works comprehensively - the object of the ritual, he often remembers the one that calls him. To make you think about yourself, you need to perform several rituals.

First of all, a woman sets up protection for herself - this is an important condition so that no one suffers from the magic used.

Protection is put a few days before the main ceremony. For this, an additional conspiracy is used on any subject. A piece of jewelry or a little thing is chosen with which a woman can walk every day. Protective words are spoken on this subject:

“I protect myself from all evil, from words, from actions, from returns. As I want it, so it will be. Amen".

Making the other person think about you is an intervention that shouldn't be permanent. To force - to forcibly plant a new, alien thought, therefore, without reciprocity, such a conspiracy is ineffective. If the relationship develops without mutual attraction and feelings, they will not last long. When a girl decides: “You need to read the plot in order to think about me,” she first needs to determine for what purposes this man will be needed in the long run.

A variety of conspiracies to call a loved one

Each summoning ritual has its own paraphernalia and preparation. When choosing a rite, the conspirator evaluates the current situation: how far is the object of love, what does he think about her without magical intervention, how often do men and women see each other - all these factors affect the effectiveness of the ritual. To make a man think about himself, rituals come in handy:

• on the concentration of male attention;
• for wine;
• on a cockroach.

With the help of magic, you can make a man sad - he will suffer until he meets a girl. So that the man does not stop thinking about the conspirator constantly, the spell is repeated every few months. Such magic is dangerous only for victims who do not feel love for the conspirator or are interested in another woman - in such cases, the rite will only cause harm and will not bring happiness to anyone.

Ritual for the concentration of male attention

The ritual for concentration of attention is carried out as needed: if a man moved away, he stopped paying attention to a woman. In such cases, magic To perform the ceremony, the conspirator must concentrate - all her thoughts, all her desires must be directed to achieve the goal.

Preparation for the ritual

Preparation for the ritual

A ritual is performed only for a flour product, so the girl prepares the dough herself: if she seeks help from strangers, she will not be able to attract the attention of a guy. You can’t bake treats at night, only during the day. If you bake at night, you can untie your loved one forever.

To make your beloved guy more active, you can cook the dough, like on Easter cake. The prepared treat stays all day until night, and only after sunset is used for a magical ritual. In the morning, a baked and charmed pie should be treated to a loved one or any person from his close circle. Soon, the beloved will come to the threshold and will try to get closer to the conspirator.

Reading a conspiracy

The first part of the plot is read on ready dough. It mixes well, and while the dough is still soft, the girl thinks about her lover: she remembers how he looks, what features of his face. As soon as the dough is ready, it is necessary to fashion the cake, saying:

“Soft and gentle, just like my favorite. Growing like his feelings. I and he are two inseparable parts. Amen".

The second part of the plot is read at night, when the conspirator hides from prying eyes:

“I baked a treat for you (the name of the beloved), I cooked for you. Now it's your turn to go to me, beat the thresholds, look for me. May it be so".

The plot is repeated three times, after which the girl goes to sleep. She can't talk to anyone before bed.

Ritual for food

Food rituals are the strongest and most effective. Any dish prepared by the hands of the conspirator is suitable for the ritual. It is better to prepare a favorite treat for a man who does not call or rarely makes appointments.

Food is being prepared with a calm soul, so before the ritual you need to let go of all grievances: if a woman is angry with a man, the conspiracy will not work correctly. A ritual for food is performed during the day or at night (time of day does not matter).

Preparation for the ritual

The ceremony is performed after spiritual cleansing. To do this, on the eve of the ceremony, the conspirator goes to church: at the morning service, she confesses, and asks higher powers help in the implementation of the plan. From the church, you need to bring holy water home, on which you can cook a man’s favorite treat.

During cooking, you can not talk to anyone.

To enhance the work of the ritual, visualization is used when the conspirator imagines a joint future with a man. A quick ceremony is performed until the moment when the man sits down at the table (such a ceremony is not performed at a distance).

Reading a conspiracy

The ceremony is performed on a cooked dish. Until it cools down, the girl reads the words of the conspiracy:

“I sift flour, grind flour, flour for my beloved! Let him, the servant of God (the name of the beloved), yearn for me, wait for me, talk about me - let all his thoughts about me be. So that he does not need someone else's beauty, so that only I, so that only about me. Let the servant of God (the name of the beloved) strive for the servant of God (the name of the conspirator), for this I add cinnamon. Amen".

The slander is repeated three times, after which the dish must be tasted with a man. If he does not try the treat, the rite will not work. It is impossible to use this type of magic more than 2 times a year, otherwise, instead of attachment, the conspirator may get the opposite result.

Ritual for a cockroach

An ancient cockroach and egg ritual is used if the loved one is at a distance. For the ritual, you need a living insect: the larger the cockroach, the faster the conspiracy will help. The second main attribute for the ceremony is the eggshell. If possible, a fresh egg from a domestic chicken is selected. The egg is carefully broken to preserve the bulk of the shell.

Additionally, you will need tape or tape. All attributes for the ritual are prepared in advance. During the ritual, you need to help yourself with the power of thought and use visualization: imagine how a harmonious relationship is restored or begins with a man.

Preparation for the ritual

An important condition for the work of the ritual is the purity of the thoughts of the conspirator. If a woman does not try to take someone else's man away, it will not be difficult to force him. The rite is not suitable for revenge or attracting a random passion.

The woman prepares the dwelling in which she will perform the ritual. If you do not clean, the ritual may not work correctly or not work at all.

Cleaning is carried out in the entire living room: a concentrated saline solution is diluted, to which a few drops of holy water are added. The whole house is washed with such a solution, and then the water is poured under a dry tree (inanimate).

Reading a conspiracy

After waiting for the night, the conspirator begins the ceremony. To do this, she cleans the shell and puts a live cockroach in it. So that he does not run away, the shell is sealed with tape or tape. A conspiracy is read on the prepared attribute:

“The cockroach sits in a dungeon, without food and water, he languishes there. Now I give my torment to the servant of God (the name of the beloved), let him miss me, suffer for me, don’t eat without me, don’t drink without me. Let the thirst for my presence keep him from living. Let melancholy-grit be his sister. Don't dodge it, don't run away. Amen".

The plot is repeated three times, after which the cockroach is taken out into the street. It is impossible to release an insect from the shell. The magic works instantly. The man on whom the ritual was performed begins to get bored - he calls, writes, looking for a chance meeting with the conspirator. Every day his attachment only grows.

Ritual for photography

A strong ritual is performed with a photograph of a loved one. The picture stores the energy of the one who is depicted on it. For the ritual to work, use:

• an image on which there is only an object of love (there should be no strangers);
• printed picture - the photo that was in the album or in the frame is not used.

The fresher the picture of the beloved, the more effective the ceremony. A strong conspiracy is read only on the growing moon, on other days it is ineffective. A ritual is performed before going to bed, and after it you can’t talk to anyone.

Preparation for the ritual

The ritual uses white magic, but this type of conspiracy cannot be abused (any magic has its price). The text is learned by heart: you can’t read magic words from a piece of paper, you also can’t change the order of words or make your own changes to the plot. Before the ritual, you need to imagine your lover - his image should stand before the eyes of the girl.

A strong rite begins to work from the first days, so the conspirator must be ready for dramatic changes. You can’t harbor a grudge against a man who has disappeared - in such a mood, magic will help to quarrel with your lover even more. Visualization takes 10-15 minutes, after which you can begin the ceremony.

Reading a conspiracy

A strong conspiracy is read in the photo of a loved one:

“I see the image of the dear, and my heart beats stronger. I will give him love, and he will definitely respond. Let him, the servant of God (the name of the beloved), not sleep without me. Let his soul burn, the path to languish. Amen".

The plot is repeated exactly 12 times. After the ritual, a photograph of the beloved is left under the pillow. The conspirator goes to bed. The next morning, changes in the behavior of the victim of the binding will begin.

Ritual to bore a man

If a person does not have joy in life, he begins to look for changes. Such changes will be the conspirator, to whom the man will be drawn. A ritual is used if a man likes, but does not take the first steps. Such magic helps to attract an avid bachelor.

Preparation for the ritual

Reading a conspiracy

As soon as the sun sets, a conspiracy is read on the thing:

“What belongs to you, what is dear to you, is now in my power. So you, the servant of God (the name of the beloved), obey me. A man has his heart, and your heart is in my hands. May it be so. Amen".

The plot is repeated three times, after which the thing is returned to the owner. The conspiracy does not work immediately, but gradually: the first results fail after 2 weeks.

Ritual for wine

For the ritual on wine, the presence of a man is necessary, on which the drink is spoken. A ritual is performed before a date or an important meeting. Red wine is chosen, which the man must drink. A drink is spoken a week before a date. A conspiracy is read on a bottle of wine, and then it settles on the window (every night the light of the growing moon falls on the bottle). During a date, the conspirator should pour the drink.

Reading a conspiracy

The words of the conspiracy are read in a half-whisper:

“Wine is a delicious drink, like longing for me is bitter, so drink it down, servant of God (name of a loved one). When you finish drinking, it comes to me: your soul is with me, and I will always have it. May it be so. Amen".

The conspiracy on wine is very strong, so you need to be careful with it. If a man often drinks a charmed drink, bad thoughts will begin to visit him (about suicide, about escaping from a conspirator). So that such thoughts do not wake up in a person, he is affected no more than once a year.

A slander against thoughts about a loved one for a girl

In order not to think about the person you like, a wine ritual is used. To do this, a woman drinks a drink alone, pronouncing another conspiracy:

“You are a stranger. Longing for you is bad for me. As soon as in the chest, like a bug in a bag. I'm running from you, I don't know you anymore. Amen".

Every woman wants her beloved man to belong to her and only to her, constantly think about her, fulfill any desires, remain faithful in reality and in her thoughts ... Making a dream come true is not so difficult, the main thing is to follow and psychologists. Rest assured, not only you, but he will wake up and fall asleep with your name on his lips. WANT.ua will tell you how to make a guy think about you!

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HOW TO MAKE A MAN THINK ABOUT YOU: PSYCHOLOGY

At their core, men are hunters. They like to conquer and take impregnable fortresses, so it is not the best tactic for you to perch and callous on his eyes. Pull yourself together, even if you are crazy about a man. Let him, and not you, look for opportunities to meet and talk, to interest you in something unusual. A man should feel that you are a hot woman that he was lucky to draw your attention to himself, that he is still competitive. Even if there is no more important thing for you now than hypnotizing the phone - do not focus on this and do not say phrases like "I have been waiting for your call for so long."

Let it be a secret for him. And never pick up the phone on the first ring - it's indecent for a decent girl. Show that you have an interesting and rich life outside it - work, hobbies, friends, relatives. You should always be fully armed and answer the question in the style of “What are you doing now?” you can never answer "NOTHING!". What does nothing mean? Are you sitting in the middle of the room on the bare floor, without the TV, music, computer turned on and waiting for his call? It's at least strange, don't you think? You are not a girl obsessed with his call, who is ready to wait and answer the call at any time of the day or night.

Anyway you must be doing something- watching a series or reading a book, going shopping (even for milk or bread), walking in the park with a dog, sitting in a cafe, exercising in a fitness club with a trainer, go-go, sitting in line with a doctor, going to meet friends. But you never know what you can be busy with, even if it’s not a very useful thing - this guy doesn’t need to know.

But also don't forget to flirt. If you are cold as an icicle, a man will not be interested in you. You need to be moderately affectionate, sociable and inaccessible. Flirt and. He should think that you are an easy, mysterious, elusive, businesslike, busy and enthusiastic woman with whom you want to spend your free time.

Appreciate what a man does for you. Many girls turn their noses up at a nondescript bouquet of flowers, surprises, gifts, which repel the representatives of the stronger sex. Learn to Say Thank You for Small Gifts, thank for actions, laugh at jokes, and he will reach out to you.

HOW TO GET YOUR HUSBAND TO THINK OF YOU

1. Become not just a lover for a man, but also a good friend. Listen to what he says, comfort with a word in Hard time, try to delve into difficult situations in his life (well, if you don’t understand anything at all about his problems, at least listen). Give him advice, but never say "I told you!".
2. To make a man think about you, it is enough to leave subtle hints of your presence in his life. It is not at all necessary to transfer a good half of your wardrobe to his apartment, a toothbrush, arrange shampoos and creams in the bathroom. It is enough to casually leave your elastic band or hair clip in his bedroom, or a hair comb in the hallway on the bedside table. You can give him an unusual diary, a perfume with an amazing aroma, a mug with a funny inscription - and that's all, using your gift daily, he will unconsciously remember you.
3. Be unpredictable and don't impose. If every day you call him first, send 100 SMS, he will take it for granted. And if you are on a work e-mail (in case that no one is looking at your work mail except him) with yourself in the lead roles with a letter of unambiguous content, he will remember you all day. Leaving notes with unusual content in his jacket pocket, in the car or at home, you make him think about you more often.
4. Create reasons for jealousy, but not serious ones. He should be jealous of you, but as if for nothing. You can casually flirt with a waiter, bartender, taxi driver or seller, smile at a random man, appear on the doorstep with a gorgeous bouquet of flowers, but saying that this is a friend who has a birthday tomorrow. Go to a corporate party in all weapons - makeup, hair, heels and a super-cool dress, but leave it early and go to your husband with a bottle of wine. You should drive him crazy, but never make him feel like you can change him.

MAKE A MAN THINK ABOUT YOU AT A DISTANCE

Distance is a test for any relationship. Most couples, faced with a barrier of several hundred (or thousand) kilometers, break up, unable to withstand the test of strength. It doesn’t matter if a man went on a business trip to another city, or you flew away with your friends on vacation, or he went to visit distant relatives, it doesn’t matter, distance can both strengthen and shake relations.

Be sure to give the man your PRINTED photo so that he can look at you at any opportunity. It would not be bad to put your handkerchief or panties soaked in your favorite perfume in his bag. The unexpected surprise will make him think of you.

When communicating via video skype, wear. You can somehow arrange sex on the phone or video to stir up interest. Send a man funny SMS in the morning that will definitely cheer him up.

Give the man some trinket that he can hang around his arm or neck. Looking at your present, a man will remember you and want to see you as soon as possible.

You can arrange a surprise for a man - without warning, come to him in another city. A surprise should have a positive result, unless, of course, it turns out that your loved one has not only work in another, but also another woman. Although it would be helpful to know.

HOW TO MAKE A MARRIED MAN THINK OF YOU: CONSPIRACY

To begin with, understand - why do you need? Just to show everyone how cool you are, that married people fall for you and destroy the family? Or are you really in love with this man that you are ready for anything? Or are you wondering what kind of married men are in bed? You can make a married man think with the help of the above tips, or you can turn to magic. Uuuuuu, magic is a dangerous sphere and if it is used incorrectly, you can harm not only the man you love, but also his family, as well as yourself. Of course, it is better to turn to specialists, however, if you believe them, real magicians and sorcerers will not engage in it, since three areas are not subject to them: death, love and money.

You can try to turn the plot yourself: take a photo of a married man in which he is depicted to the waist and a red thread. Write your names on the photo and embroider a heart on the man on the left chest. When embroidering a heart, say the following words: “Love spell, act, but love me, oh (guy's name), son of God. Your heart is tied with a red thread to mine forever. Think of me, feel the prick in your heart, dear (boyfriend's name)."

Another ritual: prepare a melissa tincture, wake up before dawn, wash yourself with the tincture and drink it a little. During the ceremony, think about the man all the time and say the following words: “Fly, fly, fire of love! Fly to the one with whom the heart beats. Let him think about me, let his thought twist like a ribbon.

But do not rely on conspiracies and even more so to destroy other people's families. Pay attention to free men - after all, there are plenty of them, even though “Because according to statistics, there are nine guys for ten girls” ...

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Very often we fall in love with those who do not reciprocate our love or simply do not notice us. It also happens that a man loses interest after a few dates, and you sincerely do not understand what's the matter. In such cases, you can resort to some female tricks to make him think about you.

1. Make eye contact

It doesn’t matter if it’s a man you know or a casual passerby, in any case, you need to make him look directly into your eyes for at least a few seconds. If you manage to meet his eyes, mentally send him something like this: "I want you to fall in love with me / call me / meet me." This technique works in 99 cases out of 100. After it, a man will certainly distinguish you from the gray mass of people around him and wants to spend time with you.

2. Visualize his love

Before going to bed, when the brain relaxes, try to think about your beloved and imagine how good you are together, how you are sitting in a cafe, kissing or having sex ... Try to visualize your time together as clearly as possible: “feel” the smell of his perfume, the scent of flowers, that he gave you, feel the stubble on his cheeks or the elastic palm that he puts on your shoulder. It is enough to make such a visualization 3-4 times to arouse in a man a subconscious desire to think about you.

3. Be light and fun

No man dreams of being close to the one who is constantly fixated on problems, failures, who always whines and complains about fate. A man wants to meet a woman who has no problems, and if there are, they do not become the main meaning of her life. Do not load it with your stories about loans, mortgages and sick parents. Show him that you can easily cope with any difficulties and your life is a fairy tale, not a constant struggle.

4. Don't be available

A man needs a light, airy princess who will amaze the imagination with her mystery and cause a desire to conquer her. Well, is it interesting when a woman comes herself and voluntarily gives herself into her hands? Tease him with your inaccessibility, add a drop of jealousy, showing that you are very popular and desirable among other men.

5. Release your desire

The main condition for the fulfillment of any dream is letting go. That is, think about what you passionately want - and forget about it. Do not torment yourself with dreams of your happy future, do not conjure over the phone, waiting for his call. Reduce the importance of this event and calmly go about your business. Think like this: if you are destined to be together, he will certainly call and appear in your life. Well, if not, find someone better.

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6. Show him you care

It takes a little for the average man to feel wanted and attractive. Sometimes it’s enough for him to treat him with a pie at lunchtime (remember, did the main character of the film “The Most Charming and Attractive” do this?) Or a casual compliment ... Show easy care for someone you like, but do not go too far. Give him a ride home by car, give him a bar of his favorite chocolate ... Soon his heart will certainly tremble!

7. Be independent

Do not hang around a man's neck, begging for help or hinting that he must constantly pay for you. Such behavior, especially at first, will cause irritation rather than interest. It is important for a man that you perceive him as an interesting person, and not as a trouble-free bag porter or a tightly stuffed wallet.

8. Believe that you are beautiful

Think only good things about yourself, inspire yourself that you are the ideal woman that every man wants to be with. Consciously increase your own value, self-confidence. List your virtues to yourself every day, praise yourself and do not even allow the thought that something is wrong with you. Make a list of your positive qualities and read it daily. Aloud!

9. Don't focus on him alone

Believe me, your chosen one is far from the only good man in this world. No matter what happens, you can always meet someone else. Don't close your eyes to the whole the world, do not focus on him alone, do not build him into a cult, and then it will be easier for you to attract his attention.

10. Cut Contacts

If you already had a relationship with a man, but he suddenly cooled off, do a practice called "Cutting off contacts." Stop all communication with this person for 21 days. Don't text him, don't check his social media accounts, don't answer his calls. Instead, take a blank sheet of paper every day and write the following phrase 21 times: "(Name of the man) understands that I am the woman of his life and wants to see me." Most likely, after 21 days, he will contact you and begin to be interested again.